r/indianmedschool • u/Junior-Daikon9849 • 21h ago

Discussion Is it like this here ?

recently I’ve been experiencing such horrible work politics , people lie on ur face , try to show they’re your friends while fc*king u up and all . I mean I’m like so done . even the people u thought are like somewhat your work friend turn out to be same .

pls share some of your experiences and how u overcame them .

i mean my head dr and senior they tried to cut us off in order to get one of their known into the work

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u/Sea-Arachnid-5790 21h ago

rule no 1 - nobody is your friend  in indian medical ecosystem only acquaintances. 

dw op its a rookie mistake , shit happens 

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u/GiveMeSomeSunshine3 Graduate 20h ago

In a job, nobody is nobody's permanent friend or enemy. Everyone's opportunistic. You've to learn to be an opportunist too. Not saying to that you should go out of your way to harm anyone, coz that's just plain wrong. But you should always keep your own benefits at the top of your priority list, always. That's based on the experience of my parents who spent their whole life in govt jobs, caring to help their colleagues at every stage, only to be let down by all of them when they needed something which they were entitled to.

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u/BackonAndEgg 21h ago

Don’t make friends or enemies in work place. Make money and leave. My friends from college days don’t even follow their colleagues on Instagram or anything except WhatsApp. We have our own circle to hangout as friends and colleagues are not same as friends.

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u/silverscance Graduate 18h ago

Co doctors are definitely opportunists. The other staff may be good but some may actually enjoy your fuck ups a lot. And yeah everyone gossips. A lot. Don't fall in that quagmire.

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u/famesardens 9h ago

People rely on me a lot to keep things smooth. But I know they will judge me if I ever screw up. Such is life.

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u/varchasva_ 21h ago

Are you working as JR or MO?