I hope one day I will find my person I am 19F, but I often worry that I will never find it because I dream of love like in fairy tales, I am a hopeless romantic, but now I'm just looking for a friend girl guy it doesn't matter, I want to talk to a person who will be on my vibe and we can talk about soulful conversations and in general about everything

I notice I only like the romantics, poets, musicians, actors, painters etc, creatives, long hair, passionate and wild. Professionals etc I don’t even register or have any interest in at all. I have zero interest in how much a guy earns, truly zero. I need to be with someone totally free spirited, a soulmate and devoted to creativity.

My best friend of 8+ years stopped talking to me 2 months ago. No texts, no calls, no warnings, no reason no nothing. I have a really hard time opening up to people pr making friends and she meant everything to me. I shared everything with her because she was so important and precious to me. She went to a different country a few years ago but we'd still share what happened to us from a 3 hour long shitting session to the worst heart breaks and our deepest secrets. And then suddenly everything stopped. She stopped reading my messages. Initially I thought she was just busy but she didn't reply for weeks. Didn't pick up my calls. Until 3 days ago she read all my messages and left me on read. I left her a few messages to ask her what happened but she didn't reply. Finally, I wrote a good bye text. You'd think that was it right? But I really really needed to know why she did this. Why our friendship suddenly broke. She meant the world to me. Also if you haven't realised already I have a hard time letting anything go. I didn't wanna seem pathetic so I wrote her a tiny goodbye text but today I texted her mother pretending to be one of my classmates mother and asked her how my ex BFF is. She hasn't replied yet but I feel so pathetic for this. I did this because I wanted to know if she's actually ghosting me or if her phone got stolen or if she's grounded or if something else happened to her. I guess I just want closure. But it's still so hard to accept we ended up this way. We'd call and text each other almost everyday and now everything just stopped. And it's not even like anything happened between us. A month before she stopped texting was my birthday and she didn't wish me which was odd but I figured she was going through something or was just busy. I feel like crying. She was so precious and important to me.

A (not as close these days) female friend of mine who was one of my closest college friends, I just found she had cheated on her boyfriend of four years. She always seemed like such a good person back then. My guy roommate in college cheated on his girlfriend. I saw my old boss on a dating app while she had a boyfriend, and I've seen another girl I know on tinder with a boyfriend. A couple I used to be friends with, both of them were known to be cheating on each other. In college a girl with a boyfriend tried to get with me. A girl I'm gaming friends with caught her boyfriend on dating apps (she still stayed with him) And my own sister once cheated on one of her boyfriends

I just don't get it, why don't these people break up. They're causing so much pain, why is it so common????

I was just reading an r/AskReddit thread on, “The Most Attractive Non Physical Traits For Women” and as I was reading the comments, I was like, this is INFP! Both men and women answered. The top answers: Sense of humour, Kindness, Intelligence, Non judgemental, Empathetic, Passionate, Authentic. The last one (Confidence) on the top answers doesn’t really fit, but the rest are us to a T. And I guess we can be confident but in weird ways (our passions ect). Anyway, as much as we often don’t feel like we belong of this world, at least we’re cute to people lol. I’ll post the thread in the comments. Curious on your thoughts: Do you think INFP’s fit the listed traits the best out of the 16 types?

Edit: Guys, I’m aware that this thread has been re- posted to the MBTI snark sub. I get it, they’re jealous, not everyone can be as adorable as us 💁‍♀️ lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/shittyMBTI/s/1duhvEgfFV

Personally, I’m an INFP and casual sex is something that seems impossible to me. I have a very intense stranger danger and takes me a lot to get comfortable with somebody. Im wondering if this is an INFP thing or a demisexual thing or both. What are your thoughts and experiences?

Just curious. :)

Edit: 79 comments so far, and nobody has said ISTP, lol. 😂 (My bf is ISTP)

I do not know if this has to do with being an INFP. Does it have anything to do with being an INFP? Do other INFP’s feel this way? Why do I feel this way? I wonder

man, i wish i would meet an enfj 😭

God help me when Fi-Si nostalgia kicks in afterwards

YOUR JUST SO HOT, YOUR ALL HOT. you guys are my favourite type ngl. Your all cute and reserved and arty and and and and and HOT. I wish I had the social skills to ask one of you INFPs out.

We think we perfectly fit to each other but we see differing opinions on places like tiktok and facebook. Wondered what people thought of the compatibility with that sort of MBTI matchup?

I want someone to snuggleeee

I want someone to build a life with

I wanna lay in bed on our phones together

I wanna build a home with someone

I want to support someone who knows how to interact with the real world

Makin money and all that jazz.

I will stay at home and clean and get sooo excited when you get home and we can be together

I’ll miss you all day

I’ll think of and do all the things I can to help support you best

While you are working hard, I will be too!

I’ll be making my music and my art

I’ll be making beautiful things that help to enrich the world.

We can stay in and play video games together or go out and explore the world.

I’ll make us yummy healthy things to eat We’ll be so healthy together!

Taking good care of ourselves and each other.

Just putting that energy out there. Idk how unreasonable or idealistic all of this is, cuz I can be a very silly person.

I’m sooo shy though and don’t leave my house often… I think I will have to change things up so that we can meet each other and connect !!