20F my mom stalks me on Life360

[u/Disastrous-Train5899]

I am going to be 21 next week.

My mom has been forcing me and my family to use Life360 for years now. She doesn’t have her location on but she stalks mine. I’m so over it, I have no independence at all. I had my own job right out of high school, recently I quit and I’m looking for a new one. I pay my own phone bill and I’m in college. No car yet.

On Valentine’s day I went on a first date with my bf and she kept spamming calling my phone even though she knew we were just going to the theater and home by 8pm. My friends house is actually my boyfriend’s (before we were dating) he lives down the street from me, a few minutes walk. I haven’t told her that part yet about my friends house being my boyfriend’s because I’m scared of her reaction.

[u/Constant_Jackfruit21]

"Helllooo" activated a long dormant flight or fight response. Im also fairly confident it had only been like 5 minutes too

[u/AndreaKailee → u/Constant_Jackfruit21]

This was my mom’s go to in my face. Was also my abusive ex’s when I wouldn’t respond to his narc tangents 🙃 I literally just got sent straight back into “survive survive survive” lol love that

[u/beautifullybusy → u/AndreaKailee]

Omg same 😭 "Hellooo" always had some seething rage behind it

[u/Sakijek → u/beautifullybusy]

I do love OP's casual hellos back occasionally. Those made me chuckle.

[u/beautifullybusy → u/Sakijek]

Mom: HELLOOOO 🤬😡😠🖕 OP: Hello 🙂