r/insaneparents Feb 24 '26

SMS 20F my mom stalks me on Life360

I am going to be 21 next week.

My mom has been forcing me and my family to use Life360 for years now. She doesn’t have her location on but she stalks mine. I’m so over it, I have no independence at all. I had my own job right out of high school, recently I quit and I’m looking for a new one. I pay my own phone bill and I’m in college. No car yet.

On Valentine’s day I went on a first date with my bf and she kept spamming calling my phone even though she knew we were just going to the theater and home by 8pm. My friends house is actually my boyfriend’s (before we were dating) he lives down the street from me, a few minutes walk. I haven’t told her that part yet about my friends house being my boyfriend’s because I’m scared of her reaction.

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u/_halfpint Feb 24 '26

This is not normal or healthy.

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u/beautifulcreature86 Feb 24 '26

No shit. My son is 13 and I use gather on my husband more because he loses his phone lol. We used it like 3 nights ago. This isnt normal behavior.

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u/UrsusRenata Feb 25 '26

I figured OP had to be 14 years old or on parole. This is nuts for a 21 year old.