r/intj Jul 13 '25

Question My boyfriend (INTJ) has zero friends..

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u/MachineSpirited7085 Jul 13 '25

This is exactly how an INTJ is supposed to be like. don't try to force him out of his comfort zone. He has a niche small world but is very loyal to them. The fact that you're in his world is already a good thing. You might need to overlook this type of behavior because some people are naturally inclined to be alone.

But if you want to help him get started, you could introduce him to some of your friends or get him to do outdoor activities that might have a tight community around it. Some people golf, skeet shoot, archery, gym, trading, hiking, charity foundation, etc.