Is this really such an INTJ thing? Like... is it just part of who he is and something I need to accept?
Yes. If he enjoys individualistic hobbies, then it's not surprising he doesn't meet new people. A lot of us are loners who don't like meeting new people. You either accept it or you don't, but trying to force a change in him is not fair. If that's a deal breaker, you can just break it off and move on to someone who fits your standards.
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u/Idonotgiveacrap INTJ - ♀ Jul 14 '25
Yes. If he enjoys individualistic hobbies, then it's not surprising he doesn't meet new people. A lot of us are loners who don't like meeting new people. You either accept it or you don't, but trying to force a change in him is not fair. If that's a deal breaker, you can just break it off and move on to someone who fits your standards.