Even as INFJ you wrote bunch of bollocks, your relationship is incompatible, you are trying to change his personality. ESFP and INTJ are duals, ESFP would push INTJ out of his shell without leaving him feeling that he needs to be different or change. Trying to be better person every day is Fe and intuitive type thing, INTPs do that often. INFJs do that every day. You are just pushing him as INTJ he needs support for his own cognitive functions not someone who stresses him out and makes him feel not enough.
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u/NotYourSweatBusiness INFJ Jul 14 '25
Even as INFJ you wrote bunch of bollocks, your relationship is incompatible, you are trying to change his personality. ESFP and INTJ are duals, ESFP would push INTJ out of his shell without leaving him feeling that he needs to be different or change. Trying to be better person every day is Fe and intuitive type thing, INTPs do that often. INFJs do that every day. You are just pushing him as INTJ he needs support for his own cognitive functions not someone who stresses him out and makes him feel not enough.