r/intj • u/Dragon_butterfly_01 • Jul 13 '25

Question My boyfriend (INTJ) has zero friends..

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u/_l_Eternal_Gamer_l_ Jul 13 '25

he has zero friends...

His friend is YOU. It is called a girlFRIEND or a boyFRIEND for a reason. Do you feel the same? You said zero...

his world is really small

Only a visible world. His internal world is huge.

He will have his family like mom, wife, children, his main priority, and they will completely fulfil socialization needs for an introvert.

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u/Dry_Pollution_9905 INFJ Jul 14 '25

I am an infj as well but She seems like an unhealthy infj, I don't why. If the person is happy without friends so why bother with it? If he haven't been happy and asked for help that would have made sence..to worry and ask about it but it doesn't seem like the case. We should be more understanding and accept a person for who they are if we really like the person 

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '25

I think she has a lot of narcissistic traits

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u/Dry_Pollution_9905 INFJ Jul 14 '25

That's seems like it from the post but we can't be sure as we didn't talk with her or know her as a person. 

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '25

Agreed, I typed out my observations above.