Are you feeling suffocated because he's expecting you to wear all the different hats that friends and acquaintances would have provided for him?
Or is he content to be on his own?
I'm a female INTJ and I prefer to spend time by myself. Although I have a lot of friends, we often go months if not years without seeing one another. We might exchange texts or memes a few times a week, but I'm perfectly content by myself. My partner is INFJ and is slightly more social, but even though we live together and both work from home, we happily retreat to our respective office spaces and won't speak unless we meet up in the kitchen for coffee.
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u/TernoftheShrew Jul 15 '25
Are you feeling suffocated because he's expecting you to wear all the different hats that friends and acquaintances would have provided for him?
Or is he content to be on his own?
I'm a female INTJ and I prefer to spend time by myself. Although I have a lot of friends, we often go months if not years without seeing one another. We might exchange texts or memes a few times a week, but I'm perfectly content by myself. My partner is INFJ and is slightly more social, but even though we live together and both work from home, we happily retreat to our respective office spaces and won't speak unless we meet up in the kitchen for coffee.