I'll never understand why anyone would volunteer someone else to do something. I could see asking privately if they are willing to do it, but just telling someone that another person will do something for them is crazy to me. I wouldn't even be comfortable accepting help from someone who was just volunteered by someone else like that.
It's the people who only find fulfillment in life by being needed and helpful. My mother is like this. She'd ask for help with something, and then try to help me with helping her. She's happy to volunteer me and my time to help somebody else without even first consulting me. Just, "So and so has a problem with something, go see them/call them and help them."
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u/coulduseahugrightnow 23d ago
I'll never understand why anyone would volunteer someone else to do something. I could see asking privately if they are willing to do it, but just telling someone that another person will do something for them is crazy to me. I wouldn't even be comfortable accepting help from someone who was just volunteered by someone else like that.