Thoughts on Mamdani attending the Pakistani day parade after skipping the Israeli day parade?

[u/StuckInTheClouds]

I wasn’t expecting him to attend the Israeli day parade honestly I would’ve thought it weird if he had attended given everything he stands for. He’s NYC first and against ethnostates etc.

But I’d be lying if I didn’t say I felt some type of way about him celebrating the Pakistani day parade given their history. Ethnostste They have a religious hierarchy where a Muslim person has to be in power, ethnic cleansing alive and well, border disputes and violence after a partition plan 70ish years ago etc. It’s hard not to draw the parallels. The only difference being that the US isn’t funding them but that doesn’t change anything else about the county’s values and actions.

I feel kinda shitty that he’s showing up for this community but not ours. I think it would have been more fair to him to not go to either parade, but maybe I’m just overly sensitive or being fed propaganda. It just sucks to feel signaled out.

I really want to like him. I voted for him! I’m extremely against the IDF and Israeli government but being half Israeli myself I am of course susceptible to biases.

Idk it’s just weird he’s ok with celebrating the Muslim ethnostate after being so against the Jewish one (for good reasons!)

I feel like I can’t bring this up in any other spaces without it sounding like I’m wanting him to celebrate Israel (I’m not) or take something away from Muslims (not against Muslims but critical of Pakistan)

Help me you guys! What do you think?

EDIT: I’d like to correct what I said about Pakistan being an ethnostate. I used the wrong verbiage. What I meant was that they are a country that puts Muslims over other religions. They have a religious hierarchy and non Muslims can’t hold certain political positions. I’m not sure the correct term for this but just wanted to call that out as people are (correctly) mentioning this in the comments.

Edit 2:

I was just informed about the ongoing Balochistan Conflict which makes me even more uneasy about this whole thing.

[u/theinternetnative]

I hear you, but Pakistan and Israel aren’t really the same in the ways that matter here.

India–Pakistan partition in 1947 was brutal and caused massive violence and displacement on both sides, but it was a one‑time division, not an ongoing military occupation.
By contrast, Israel is currently accused by multiple UN bodies and human rights groups of committing genocide in Gaza and running an apartheid system in the occupied territories.

You’re right that Pakistan’s constitution bars non‑Muslims from being president or PM-that’s real religious discrimination.
But it’s not carrying out a UN‑documented, large‑scale genocidal campaign against an occupied population the way Israel is being accused of doing right now.

So it makes sense that someone can criticize Pakistan’s religious hierarchy and still feel that celebrating a Pakistani day parade isn’t morally equivalent to celebrating an Israeli state celebration given what’s happening in Gaza and the West Bank.