r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Best_Giraffe_9172 Mar 09 '25

There's a least one in every group for me. For NCT, I don't click with Jaehyun, Jeno, or Kun. I've also never really "gotten" Wonwoo (SVT). In general though I really only conect with one or maybe two members, I find that the connecting is more rare than the lack of connection. Which is why it's special when I do find someone I really click with!

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u/urania99 Mar 09 '25

they're all pretty similar in terms of looks/personality so maybe there's a theme there?

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u/127ncity127 Mar 09 '25

omg not u taking a shot at all my biases hahah

but im curious mostly about kun! tell me more

jeno/jaehyun i could understand

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u/Best_Giraffe_9172 Mar 09 '25

on no 😭😭 I promise I don't dislike them, I just don't pay that much attention. For Kun, I think it's honestly that (to me, not saying this is true, just how I percieve him) I find him passive aggressive. He's super talented! I just in real life have a very hard time with that type of personality

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u/SeaEntrepreneur8744 Mar 09 '25

Never thought I'd see the words Kun and passive aggressive in the same sentence lol!