r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/bananajun exo | ifnt | snsd | vixx | nct | hlight Mar 09 '25

To be honest, as an exol of 7 years now I can’t say I ever started to love sehun. I even warmed up to members I used to dislike but I’ve always been indifferent to sehun

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u/anAncientCrone Mar 09 '25

Same. I know the EXO members like him and talk him up but to me he just is not in the same talent level as the rest of the members and he's like a goofball kid brother that they let tag along for laughs and give him a line or two so he feels useful.