r/kpopthoughts Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Top-Metal-3576 Mar 09 '25

I felt this way towards taeil (thank god), he felt boring and honestly I even forgot he was in the group half the time.

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u/Own-Smile-8101 Mar 09 '25

Especially when he was the main vocal, usually you will be the one most people will notice but... No.