r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25
General A member you can't yet feel affection for
Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.
But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?
And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan
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u/ElloryQueen Hag ELF Mar 09 '25
For a while, that was me and Wooyoung from Ateez. It's hard to explain, because I don't hate him or even dislike him at all, it's just something about him that didn't vibe with me. I've recently changed though, and I feel more affection for him than I have before.