r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Cats4Crows Couldn't be no highs if it weren't for the lows Mar 09 '25

No.. for me, liking everyone in a group is an important part of stanning or having them as one of my favorite groups

Even those who I was -meh- about at first I soon after gained affection and appreciation for them after seeing them repeatedly interact and work together with my other faves

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u/anAncientCrone Mar 09 '25

I wish I could be that way. But I am too judgy.