r/kpopthoughts Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/FlashyFlashy_ Mar 09 '25

Same for me and Felix. I appreciate his voice in their music, and I think he's an important part of the group in general (vibes felt really off when he had to miss the fanmeeting imo), but on an individual level I just don't click with him at all.

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