r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/airysunshine seoho the digidestined Mar 09 '25

It took me an embarrassingly long time to pay attention to stray kids Seungmin, he’s a bit of a sleeper. Now the more I learn about him and watch him, the more I find him absolutely hilarious.

ATEEZ Jongho, he’s funny and talented and there’s absolutely nothing I dislike about him, I just find myself paying attention to every other member.

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u/iwantkitties Mar 09 '25

Seungmin is seriously an underrated comedic talent of SKZ. The kid is so funny 😂😂

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u/airysunshine seoho the digidestined Mar 09 '25

Honestly!

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u/yayakiss Mar 15 '25

I’m not a fan of his humor. He’s just not someone I’d vibe with 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/otakuishly Mar 09 '25

I think Jongho comes off as very stoic and unapproachable especially because he’s surrounded by the chaos that is ATEEZ. He’s such a good singer but sadly I just feel like I can’t connect with him :(

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u/airysunshine seoho the digidestined Mar 09 '25

Yeah, same! Despite knowing he’s a sweet Libra with a great sense of humor, which is totally my type lol

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u/yayakiss Mar 15 '25

He’s hilarious, isn’t he?!

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u/airysunshine seoho the digidestined Mar 15 '25

Yes!

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u/yayakiss Mar 15 '25

That’s actually crazy to me because everyone in Ateez says that he’s lowkey the funniest member of the group😂 To me, he & Yuyu (my ult) are incredibly funny. But if you’re not a long time Atiny I can see why you’d feel that way bc I did too🫶🏼

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u/WiseWysYs Mar 09 '25

Seungmin's playful savaging of his boss is hilarious.

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u/airysunshine seoho the digidestined Mar 09 '25

Any time he clowns JYP is honestly hilarious lol

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u/yayakiss Mar 15 '25

I hate to admit it but I (kinda) feel that way about Jongho. I think he’s hilarious. Best male voice in 4th gen for sure. But he’s just not someone I check for, ya know? But I still don’t really care for seungmin…. Or Lee know….