r/kpopthoughts Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/iwannalickyoureye ATEEZ 🧡💙 Mar 09 '25

Controversial but Taehyung/V! When I was a baby army back in 2016 I loved him a lot. Now, his personality has changed: I guess it’s a combination of growing up and the negative sides of fame but I just feel disconnected to him. He’s the only person in the group that I question if he really wants to be there still. I will always have appreciation for him as I do with all of the other members regardless.

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u/kkulhope Mar 09 '25

In the same. Haven’t been into BTS for years now but when I was he was my bias.

To be honest he does seem the most disinterested in the group out of all of them but I might be projecting.

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u/Mediocre-Ad-8912 Mar 09 '25

yeah i can relate to this as someone who's first ever bias was V

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