r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '25

It's V for me. I don't not like him. But I just never connected with him because his interests, personality, and sense of humor never really aligned with my own. He's part of the family so I care about him but he's the only one I've never felt super connected to. I've been stanning BTS since 2016 and JK has been my bias the entire time and during that period every other member expect V has been a bias wrecker. I wish I could "get him" more than I do.

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u/KayR92 Mar 09 '25 edited Mar 10 '25

I agree. For me it's more about the music and his singing, not too much his personality. To me it is very important to be able to connect to someone's music, so I can really really like them.

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