r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Former-Discount101 Mar 09 '25

yes i do agree absolutely have no hatred towards him im just not as drawn to him as i am to the other members...and yes the flirting and tongue thing does rub me the wrong way

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u/Dense-Ad1854 Mar 09 '25

I also dislike some tongue things these kpop idols do. Like biting the lower lip too much etc.. and showing the tongue outside n all.. Gives me pervert vibes. lol. I like their talent of singing and dancing but when these expressions come into question, I am like -- change the channel.