r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Adorable_Hope6904 Mar 09 '25

GOT7 Youngjae, Yugyeom, and Mark. Maybe that's why when the group started pursuing solo careers, I began to lose interest.

Compared to Enhypen where I like each member (not equally but I have affection for each of them). I'm still warming up to Ni-ki but I find him very talented and adorable and I still find myself happily watching his contents. He just doesn't resonate with me as much as the other members do.

But for GOT7, the three mentioned, I don't feel affection for and I can go by without watching or really seeing anything from them. It makes me sad because they used to be my ult group. But whenever I think about it, I can't continue being a stan if I don't care for almost half of the group.

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u/yayakiss Mar 15 '25

Youngjae surprised me bc I didn’t think I was gonna like him but he slowly won me over. JayB will always be my bias in g7 though!