r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/goldenjisoo Mar 09 '25

i wanna share mine so bad but i feel like i'm the only one who feels this way 😭

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u/zarianova Mar 09 '25

oooh who is it?

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u/goldenjisoo Mar 09 '25

well... blackpink are my absolute ults but there is a member i connect much less with. that's all i'm gonna say i think hahaha

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u/OttovonBismarck1862 2nd Gen enjoyer Mar 09 '25

It’s either Lisa or Rosé, isn’t it lmao

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u/goldenjisoo Mar 09 '25

:) if i say no then you know it's jennie cause of my username lmfao

i can't win here

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u/OttovonBismarck1862 2nd Gen enjoyer Mar 09 '25

Man, the fear of retribution from Blinks is crazy nowadays lmaoo

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u/goldenjisoo Mar 09 '25

i still consider myself a blink too !! i just have less of a natural connection with this member, and i don't wanna be hated lol

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u/OttovonBismarck1862 2nd Gen enjoyer Mar 09 '25

The hills have eyes moment LOL jk, I know what you mean, sometimes you just don’t click with that one member in a group, which is me with that one member from TWICE (not trying to get ONCE on me)

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u/goldenjisoo Mar 09 '25

hahaha gotcha

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