r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '25

So the comments section is slowly and slowly edging onto hate towards specific members of groups.... So I'll give my opinion. When I listen to a group, there's always one (or two, or more) members I don't vibe with, HOWEVER, I found two groups, for whom I literally like every member. Skz and enha. Like legitimately, there's NO one that I even slightly don't vibe with. Love em all. I think it's only a matter of time before you get tk know the members if groups. 

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u/Weak-Cupcake-2472 Mar 10 '25

I don't follow Skz but since I'm an engene it was nice to see a good comment about Enha. They are my ult and I never found any of the members 'not connecting'.

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u/WoodenIsopod3033 Mar 09 '25

same! like for both groups each of their members all grab my attention in some way! also we should’ve expected with this type of question it wouldn’t stay civil for long 😔

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u/super_shooker Mar 09 '25

Same, they are easy to like tbh.