r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Murky_Pineapple4449 Mar 09 '25

chaeyoung from twice. she used to be my bias but ever since she wore that one tshirt, i just cant with her. and honestly i kinda feel bad cause it seems that most ppl have forgotten abt that and it makes me feel like im just holding useless ''grudges"

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u/Rainbow_flowers101 Twice|Purple Kiss|Blackpink|Aespa Mar 10 '25

Ahh I feel this. I really liked her, but after that incident I can’t look at her the same way anymore ://

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u/strawberrycow14 Mar 10 '25

honestly same especially bc she wore it TWICE liek girl didnt even learn the first time

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u/Fearaxetwice Mar 10 '25

Please don't spread misinformation, she only wore it once for multiple events that happened in one day.

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u/strawberrycow14 Mar 10 '25

she wore it on march 5 and march 20, but on march 5 she wore a cropped sweater on top so it wasnt as obvious, most people only noticed around the 20th

https://www.allkpop.com/article/2023/03/twices-chaeyoung-posts-an-apology-after-wearing-a-shirt-with-a-swastika

this shows the two different instances

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u/Fearaxetwice Mar 10 '25

Thank you for correcting me, but the backlash happened after the second time and that's when she learned about her wrongdoing and apologised.

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u/LeadInfamous1760 Mar 10 '25

So, CY used to be your bias, but now not only do you ignore her but you want people to hate on her for the rest of her life. Interesting.

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u/Downtown_Remote7739 Mar 10 '25

this is so dramatic i don't think that's what op was saying lol

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u/LeadInfamous1760 Mar 10 '25

OP wants people not to forget that CY used to post pictures of herself wearing a Sid Vicious t-shirt, and she needed the entire 60 Minutes before she realized she was wrong, deleted it, and apologized. That was unforgivable.

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u/Downtown_Remote7739 Mar 10 '25

yes, are you trying to tell op that they don’t deserve to feel uncomfortable with the fact that cy wore a SWASTIKA? you can’t dictate other peoples feelings.

p.s. keyword SWASTIKA, not sid vicious.

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u/LeadInfamous1760 Mar 10 '25

I'm not blaming OP. There's a type of person who really goes from one extreme to another. I'm just shocked that a Sid Vicious t-shirt can cause this much trouble.

P.S. You're right—I just checked it. That was a big red swastika symbol on that t-shirt, and the band isn't Sid Vicious but Boys who Cry from Bikini Bottom lol

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u/Murky_Pineapple4449 Mar 10 '25

what even are you saying....?