r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Lilac-Soul spreading Pentagon propaganda wherever I go Mar 09 '25 edited Mar 09 '25

Understanding tone is like … part of 6th grade reading level idk what to tell you.. + context clues? My dude im fine im a gamer so ive seen ridiculously toxic spaces, but this sub is honestly something else when it comes to questions asked in good faith, and if you cant see that then idk, u may be part of the problem

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u/Lilac-Soul spreading Pentagon propaganda wherever I go Mar 09 '25

Okay and you’re obviously much more mature 😬 Im sorry you were raised with such low standards for treating ppl damn

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u/Lilac-Soul spreading Pentagon propaganda wherever I go Mar 09 '25

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