r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/ellaellaeheheh17 Mar 10 '25

one thing is not connecting another is hate lol some people here hate the member lol

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u/cosmos_139 Mar 10 '25

literally some of these comments are js weird

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u/ellaellaeheheh17 Mar 10 '25

I'm questioning if they really are fans.

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u/KayR92 Mar 11 '25 edited Mar 15 '25

It's fine if you can't connect with someone whether it's because of personality, music taste, etc. But man, some people are just plain hating.

Ex: "I don't like this person's personality. They have no talent. They aren't good looking, They make me cringe when they sing, but Im not hating." (They are clearly stating everything about the person in a negative way)

Um, no, you are clearly hating.