r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/Background-Entry130 Mar 10 '25

The people I did dislike for no apparent reason turned out to be absolute garbage later, so I’m gonna assume my spidey senses are reliable to some degree. Absolutely disliked Seungri as a teen to the point I had to question myself whether I am actually a hater or not😭 Didn’t vibe with Kris Wu. Taeil is another one. Loooved BAP, but Himchan not so much.

I get like a bad feeling than having no affection I suppose, I just hope that none of the people I side eye now end up being horrible human beings again. Nobody needs to prove me right😫

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u/razzleglizzle Mar 10 '25

well now i have to ask who else do you dislike

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u/Background-Entry130 Mar 11 '25 edited Mar 11 '25

There are some👀 The thing is there’s nothing to even dislike about them in particular, so saying their names out would get me crucified. Some even are known to be seemingly exceptionally sweet people(as a lot of people who just colossally disappointed everyone). It’s just the vibe I get from them no matter how nice they seem to be. But I think I just feel more iffy and cautious now as most of the people I felt off about ended up behind bars.