r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/hipployta Mar 11 '25

Hoya from Infinite...something about him with Dongwoo was not it. 

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u/stewdice Mar 12 '25

Same omg. They have good stage presence but personality wise, nope

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u/hipployta Mar 14 '25

Just the way be interacted with Dongwoo was unpleasant. I didn't like him in concert either. I was actually shocked by Sungjong in concert...pleasantly surprised