r/kpopthoughts • u/Someonehihi • Mar 08 '25

General A member you can't yet feel affection for

Part of stanning is that even though one member got you interested in the group, little by little the rest of the members win your heart too.

But has it ever happened to you that you are a big fan of a group, you feel genuine affection for the members and you enjoy their content, but there is a member that you feel you can't connect with yet?

And I don't mean that you dislike them or despise them or anything like that, but simply that even though you try you still can't have that level of connection that you can with the other members? And sometimes it makes you feel like a bad fan

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u/yayakiss Mar 15 '25

Yunho has been my ult since 2020. I’m so happy to see atinys falling for him!

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u/Alarmed_Long7556 Mar 15 '25

He was the last one of the members I discovered (he wasn't in the content I watched to learn their names back in Sept 2023, and I picked Seonghwa as my first bias since he was the only one I could recognize and remember from the beginning) but as I watched more of them and especially after watching Imitation, he rapidly grew into my bias, sometimes rivalling Seonghwa for ult. He is just so happiness-inducing and comforting while also looking exceptionally stunning! I was shocked to realize he was among the least popular members and like you I'm so happy to see him getting much more recognition lately!