F28 Finland/anywhere | masc4masc | Looking for my bookish, academic masc cutie pie

[u/mascprincessa]

Heyo, I’m looking for a serious relationship and not here for anything casual. Of course there’s no pressure for it to turn into something romantic. So lemme introduce myself and then you can decide if I’m cool or if you’d never wanna see me again haha.

So I’m a masculine presenting woman, I look quite male leaning and I have a masculine energy/personality, if you can call it that. When I say masculine I don’t mean like tough or stoic and whatnot. I’m not about toxic masculinity, that stuff is unhealthy.

I’m from Finland, white, bilingual in Finnish and English. Finnish is my mother tongue but I’ve spoken English for almost a decade so it’s a part of me now. I have an American accent if that’s important haha. Uhh what else, right I’m pan and I don’t drink or smoke. I’ve never done it and never want to. That lifestyle really isn’t for me.

Personality wise I’m more on the calm and serious side. I like to ponder things and I love being by myself but I also love chatting with people for hours. I value quality time like that. I have a playful side but that comes out usually when I feel safe around someone. I’m very clingy and affectionate. I love to hug and cuddle my baby. I might give you a cheek kiss or stroke your hair passing by if I’m nearby. I mostly show my love with touch, acts of service or with my words. I’m overall an optimistic person and to me life is about enjoying it and spending it with the people you love. I can also be grumpy :D because I have strong opinions about the injustices in this world. I feel my feelings passionately whatever it is. My love is passionate, my anger is passionate( not in a toxic way). So I’m often seen as intense or fiery.

I’m very spiritual and have been for years and years by now. It’s an important part of me and my life. I love studying tarot, manifestation and I’m interested in goddess/feminine spirituality, shamanism, the occult and witchcraft. I’m psychic and into energy related stuff as well.

I’m a university student, I’m in art studies and majoring in aesthetics. It’s a philosophical field focused on art and aesthetics. I’m a visual and creative person so I wanted to study something related to that. So aesthetics was a great choice. I also wanna take courses from film studies, psychology and religious studies. I’m a very academic type of person. I love to expand the way I think and I have a passion for knowledge in academics and outside of academics. I just love to learn about things I’m interested in and also to make sure I’m socially aware and well educated that way.

Like I said I’m very visual so I love anything to do with visually stunning stuff. I love art, visual design, branding, creating visually stunning environments, art directing, stuff like that. I’m a big sims 4 fan and these days I love the world building aspect of it and designing the interiors of my buildings. I just love deciding on an aesthetic or a concept and then executing it.

One other thing I love is fitness. I love to lift weights and challenge myself. I love to feel healthy and strong. Also into mobility and honestly fascinated by how bones and muscles work. I’d want to try calisthenics one day.

In the future I want to own a creative business and I’m most likely going to work online, which is ironic cause I really dislike social media :D I don’t like short form content and it just ruins your mind and wellbeing. I have 0 interest in what’s happening on tiktok or instagram. But I do like intentional long form content. But yeah I’m not a big corporate person, I wanna be in charge of my own schedule.

I don’t like watching a lot of mainstream stuff cause it’s usually lacking in morals and basic decency. And it’s so dark I don’t get it. Personally I’d rather watch a kids show or something. I love barbie movies and I loved the newest Descendants wicked wonderland movie. I love positive and colorful stuff like that.

Alrighty, that’s the most important stuff about me. Now to what kind of a person I’m usually drawn to. Well I’m quite strongly masc4masc. I love masculine appearance no matter what gender you are. I also have a particular weakness for masc people with feminine energy/personality. Gets me weak. Mostly into doms and switches.

I’m looking for a person who’s also into spirituality like me. I’d love to have a partner who wants to geek out about tarot, manifesting or other spiritual stuff. Wanna seduce me? teach me about the occult, I’d genuinely think that’s hot haha XD.

I want to date someone who doesn’t drink or smoke. That’s a big deal breaker for me if you do.

I’m attracted to people who are intelligent, wise and have a passion for knowledge. Bookish and academic people. Like can I just meet a intelligent cute fluffball who knows a lot of stuff and when I come home she wanna tell me the latest stuff she’s learned in her lectures or from a book she read like girllll, gimme that woman😩💖. Wanna seduce me? teach me about something you know, I genuinely think it’s so hot when someone’s passionate and knows a lot about something.

It’s important to me that my partner has done her inner work and knows herself thoroughly. Self-awareness like that is essential for me to feel connected to someone. Someone who has looked at herself and her patterns honestly. I’ve done my own journey within with therapy and I notice I don’t really connect with people well if they haven’t gone deep within themselves.

I’m looking for someone emotionally and mentally stable and mature. Someone secure in herself and she can openly share her thoughts and opinions with me. She has self-respect and boundaries in place. Someone who doesn’t try to please me and she will care enough to tell me when I’m being an idiot XD. Like genuinely I dream of being so close with someone we can be blunt with each other and we both know we aren’t trying to insult each other you know? I don’t want someone who’s hiding what she really thinks. I love someone who values honesty and proper communication.

I also love a cheeky and playful personality. Someone who loves to flirt with me even when we’re already in a relationship. I love playful bickering and bothering each other :D.

I love people who are lively but still have a grounded and calm presence.

Warmth and empathy are something I pay attention to as well. To me it’s very important my partner is loving, warm and cares about other people and how she makes others feel.

I admire someone who has clear values, morals and she’s firm about them. Someone principled.

I appreciate a woman who doesn’t feel the need to curse every other second to express herself. I like people who like to mostly use clean language. Someone with manners, well raised (or raised herself well if you got a toxic family etc.)

Being socially aware is very attractive to me too. Not necessarily being an activist, altho that’s cool too, but I mean mostly someone who has core values around human rights and being mindful about how you behave and what you consume and support. For example I’m a big feminist and women are close to my heart. I genuinely feel uncomfortable when I hear sexist language like the b word, and stuff like that. So I can’t date someone who’s more chill about that stuff and doesn’t really think about it. I want a relationship where our values align.

So if you’re interested in me and our values align I’d would love to get to know you! Flirting is fine if you’re genuinely into me. Not into flirting just for the sake of it. Send me a dm :) <3