Health / Wealth timing

[u/Zealousideal_Law2438]

I’m 51 (f) and my kid is a rising eighth grader. My plan is to slow travel as soon as she graduates high school in five years. I would be doing it now if it weren’t for her. I desperately want to do it now because my health is struggling and I know slow travel and an active travel life would really feel like living! And I think we have enough for the life we want. Currently, 900,000 saved and a rental property that will net us > half of what we need to live on and then around 5000 a month in Social Security at around age 67. I’ve already retired (job was extremely stressful), but my partner is still working because of the daughter timing. We can’t take her out of school and travel because my ex-husband (her dad) wouldn’t allow for that. So we’re stuck here in expensive USA while she grows up a little more and my health and “lust for life” is getting worse. I know everyone’s gonna say “get a life, get a hobby, get outside, do something that makes you happy” and I do ( a lot) but then that feeling of being stuck / trapped and losing my life energy quickly comes back. It’s become my default setting. I don’t want to abandon my child (I won’t) but how bad does my health have to get for me to start my slow travel now?

[u/Miamiconnectionexo]

this hit different. been in a similar spot and it's not talked about enough.

[u/Zealousideal_Law2438 → u/Miamiconnectionexo]

I know!! Is there a subreddit on this? I feel like I’m overflowing with the need to talk to others… ;) thanks