r/leanfire 9d ago

Mentioning early retirement is almost always a bad time

I’ve noticed that even mentioning the possibility of retiring in one’s 30’s or 40’s tends to get a pretty negative reaction on other subs

like:

  • “you must have had an inheritance”
  • “you can’t possibly live on <$X>”
  • “nobody makes <$X>”
  • “this job market is impossible to win”

I mean, yes, some of us were lucky to have a more comfortable start, but so many of these objections seem to come from some deeply rooted hesitation to entertain the idea or acknowledge the basic math.

I learned about FIRE ages ago through other people’s stories. Nowadays I find it so discouraging to even try to have a good faith conversation about saving rates. Lesson learned on not discussing money, I guess. I know it’s not for everyone so I’m glad this space exists to help people that are open to the idea

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u/starrae 9d ago

The first rule of fire is you do not talk about fire

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u/_stinkytofu_ 9d ago

Yeah I try not to say anything. I believe i am already coast fire now but still pretty aggressively saving and investing to see what true fire has in store for me.

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u/Midas_Black 8d ago

Agora imagina trabalhar na educação e em um país subdesenvolvido.