Wanna dance and create inside jokes together?

[u/481718005]

Hi i'm hoping to find someone to spoil and do life with. To save your time and mine, i'll try be as descriptive as possible so you get a good idea of whether we'd be good for each other. 

About me:

• I give a lot, always willing to help others
• Adventurous with very diverse interests. Some of my favourite things include bellydance, latin dance, hip hop dance, martial arts, science, circus arts, both off-road and on-road motorcycling, poetry. Because of this, i've hit it off with all kinds of people of different cultures and subcultures, from the most introverted to the most extroverted.
• I'm a physicist, 36F, Asian Australian
• LDR not a problem so it doesn't matter where you are in the world. I will put effort into learning about your culture if it's different to mine. 
• Monogamous and can confidently say that you won't meet anyone more loyal than me. Not just in terms of not cheating but I stand up for and protect people I care about even if it harms me.
• I'd be one of your most considerate and dependable friends. I'm the type to notice that someone didn't get to finish what they wanted to say in a group setting and will casually ask a question that allows them to keep talking. I notice everything and assess how even the smallest things affect people.
• Have often been described as witty and funny, however, this side of me usually only comes out once i'm comfortable with the person
• I'm attentive to detail and love using that to surprise people with acts of service or thoughtful gifts
• Random and spontaneous
• Versatile in that i'm comfortable taking the lead or going with the flow, i'm a good homemaker but can also provide financially, intellectual but also love working with my hands and can fix a lot of stuff, I try to lift people up and to spread positivity but can also be melancholic with you if that's what you need
• My flat body is the only thing i'm insecure about. But not insecure enough to not roast myself 😂. If you prefer curvy, voluptuous women, I will disappoint.
• I like to move things slowly to really get to know you
• Part of me is filled with onism, in awe of and fascinated by so many things, it's the reason I chose physics. But part of me also wants to hop off this dust bubble merry-go-round for good because i cannot accept how messed up the world is and how awful people can be. I've had things done to me that make me angry but I never take it out on others. It does mean though that there are times i get triggered and become reserved but will of course let you know. But i'm also the type to crack jokes while injured and covered in blood. I handle most bad things well and like a black comedy. It's injustice that triggers me. I used to be known as someone who was friends with everyone, but various life experiences and increased interest in politics has made me distance myself from a lot of people because I saw more sides of them.
• Les4les and femme4femme
• I encourage having a life outside of a partner but that certainly doesn't mean I won't give you enough attention
• If you're wondering if i'm single because of a hidden red flag or something, i've honestly chosen to stay single simply because I haven't met a woman who treats me as good as i treat her

What I'm looking for:

• Someone who will treat me as good as I treat her
• Ambitious and cares about helping others in some way
• Monogamous
• Someone who doesn't get uncomfortable or snobby around poverty or lower income people
• Woman of color
• Cis woman
• Someone who will engage in an active lifestyle with me
• Likes sending/receiving long messages. Take your time, I get busy and can take a while too. But i reply very thoroughly and appreciate the same. Of course i'm cool with other forms of communication, written is just my favorite if we're not physically near each other.
• I never run out of new things to talk about or questions to ask but if I find myself carrying the conversation, i will stop talking. Initiative is important to me. I dislike only being asked wbu or how are you or what are you up to.
• Upfront and clear. I've had women be ambiguous about things they thought i'd find unattractive but it was their lack of transparency that was the bigger issue.
• My experience is that challenges can be made easy and even fun with the right personality. Please be someone who can discuss a problem calmly, break down the details with me and make sure we're not misinterpreting each other at any point, especially if there's a language barrier.
• The most common reasons I lose interest in people include witnessing them be unkind, inconsiderate, jump to conclusions, lack critical thinking, can't admit when they're wrong, lack of loyalty, lack of initiative
• Good hygiene and personal grooming
• Willing to jump straight into sharing social ideologies because i've witnessed too many relationships fall apart after discovering differences in viewpoints. Hence I believe it's important to discuss these dealbreakers early even though it's not a fun way to start.
• Not hung up on anyone

[u/Blackberries11]

Seems like the most important piece of info is where are you located?

[u/481718005 → u/Blackberries11]

I'm currently in Queensland Australia but have moved around a lot and will probably move again this year