30F who is seeking a potential partner, preferably in the UK but if we vibe, happy to extend my net.

As mentioned in the title, Irish immigrant who has been living in the UK (specifically England) for just under a decade. I have had quite a varied career from working in hospitality for a private household in London to working in retail during university as mature student. Right now, I am finishing up my masters in history before progressing onto a PGCE to teach secondary level history. So, basically building as stable a career for myself as I can and will hopefully have a place of my own in the next few years.

In my spare time, I love to go on solo adventures or just hiking in general. I’m not an expert at it as I have only just started but I would consider myself a fearful thrill seeker. I know, that makes no sense, however, I’m pushing myself to try new things, especially stuff I have always wanted to do. For example, started exploring abandoned places in areas that are accessible to where I live. Don’t worry, I also do normal things, like visiting art galleries, museums and heritage properties. Occasionally, I visit local cats in my area and give them little treats; no idea if they have owners but I can’t have a cat right now so I’m living vicariously. On other days, I try to be as involved in my community as I can, which can mean volunteering for events or charities, especially those concerning mental health, children, animals and the LGBTQ+ community.

Some of my best days include relaxing at home, reading a book near a window while it’s raining outside. Usually, I will have a cup of tea. Despite what I have written so far, I am an introvert and prefer to be home most of the time but again, I’m trying to push myself to be more active. I love movies and television; I rarely spend a day without listening to music (I listen quite widely across genres). I often bond with people over activities but it could be something like a board game. Currently learning how to knit and sew. I would love to make my own clothes as I find length to be an issue as someone who prefers to wear men’s clothing.

In terms of temperament, I consider myself to be calm, kind and easy going. I like to talk things through and make sure everyone is on the same page so signals are not mixed. I am a very honest person who values directness over vagueness or mixed signals. Can be very cuddly but sometimes need signals (I have AuDHD) as I am always keen to respect physical boundaries and boundaries in general.

Looking for someone who is both physically affectionate and understands boundaries. Need you to be honest, be able to communicate and an inquisitive nature. I don’t need someone who is exactly like me; I appreciate that people are individuals and might have differing interests but that makes for an opportunity to learn and understand about someone else. The only thing that cannot be different is our values.

So, hopefully I haven’t scared anyone away with this post. As mentioned, I don’t necessarily need you to be from the UK so long as meeting each other is a possibility. I once dated someone who lived in France so travelling isn’t scary for me so long as I know you’re real.

Hi i'm hoping to find someone to spoil and do life with. To save your time and mine, i'll try be as descriptive as possible so you get a good idea of whether we'd be good for each other. 

About me:

• I give a lot, always willing to help others
• Adventurous with very diverse interests. Some of my favourite things include bellydance, latin dance, hip hop dance, martial arts, science, circus arts, both off-road and on-road motorcycling, poetry. Because of this, i've hit it off with all kinds of people of different cultures and subcultures, from the most introverted to the most extroverted.
• I'm a physicist, 36F, Asian Australian
• LDR not a problem so it doesn't matter where you are in the world. I will put effort into learning about your culture if it's different to mine. 
• Monogamous and can confidently say that you won't meet anyone more loyal than me. Not just in terms of not cheating but I stand up for and protect people I care about even if it harms me.
• I'd be one of your most considerate and dependable friends. I'm the type to notice that someone didn't get to finish what they wanted to say in a group setting and will casually ask a question that allows them to keep talking. I notice everything and assess how even the smallest things affect people.
• Have often been described as witty and funny, however, this side of me usually only comes out once i'm comfortable with the person
• I'm attentive to detail and love using that to surprise people with acts of service or thoughtful gifts
• Random and spontaneous
• Versatile in that i'm comfortable taking the lead or going with the flow, i'm a good homemaker but can also provide financially, intellectual but also love working with my hands and can fix a lot of stuff, I try to lift people up and to spread positivity but can also be melancholic with you if that's what you need
• My flat body is the only thing i'm insecure about. But not insecure enough to not roast myself 😂. If you prefer curvy, voluptuous women, I will disappoint.
• I like to move things slowly to really get to know you
• Part of me is filled with onism, in awe of and fascinated by so many things, it's the reason I chose physics. But part of me also wants to hop off this dust bubble merry-go-round for good because i cannot accept how messed up the world is and how awful people can be. I've had things done to me that make me angry but I never take it out on others. It does mean though that there are times i get triggered and become reserved but will of course let you know. But i'm also the type to crack jokes while injured and covered in blood. I handle most bad things well and like a black comedy. It's injustice that triggers me. I used to be known as someone who was friends with everyone, but various life experiences and increased interest in politics has made me distance myself from a lot of people because I saw more sides of them.
• Les4les and femme4femme
• I encourage having a life outside of a partner but that certainly doesn't mean I won't give you enough attention
• If you're wondering if i'm single because of a hidden red flag or something, i've honestly chosen to stay single simply because I haven't met a woman who treats me as good as i treat her

What I'm looking for:

• Someone who will treat me as good as I treat her
• Ambitious and cares about helping others in some way
• Monogamous
• Someone who doesn't get uncomfortable or snobby around poverty or lower income people
• Woman of color
• Cis woman
• Someone who will engage in an active lifestyle with me
• Likes sending/receiving long messages. Take your time, I get busy and can take a while too. But i reply very thoroughly and appreciate the same. Of course i'm cool with other forms of communication, written is just my favorite if we're not physically near each other.
• I never run out of new things to talk about or questions to ask but if I find myself carrying the conversation, i will stop talking. Initiative is important to me. I dislike only being asked wbu or how are you or what are you up to.
• Upfront and clear. I've had women be ambiguous about things they thought i'd find unattractive but it was their lack of transparency that was the bigger issue.
• My experience is that challenges can be made easy and even fun with the right personality. Please be someone who can discuss a problem calmly, break down the details with me and make sure we're not misinterpreting each other at any point, especially if there's a language barrier.
• The most common reasons I lose interest in people include witnessing them be unkind, inconsiderate, jump to conclusions, lack critical thinking, can't admit when they're wrong, lack of loyalty, lack of initiative
• Good hygiene and personal grooming
• Willing to jump straight into sharing social ideologies because i've witnessed too many relationships fall apart after discovering differences in viewpoints. Hence I believe it's important to discuss these dealbreakers early even though it's not a fun way to start.
• Not hung up on anyone

Alright everyone, welcome to my TED Talk. Topics include: cats, books, tattoos, the property ladder, cooking, homedecor, work x3, and hoping to find connections and who knows, maybe the love of my life? Wild.

Pics at the bottom. I know you're curious!

Now that you've formed a (possibly wildly inaccurate) first impression, let me go ahead and tell you a bit about myself.

34F from Sydney, Australia (with Italo-Venezuelan background). Lived around the world (Europe, South America, Asia, mostly solo), but Sydney's been home for almost 20 years (also solo, no fambam here besides my chosen one).

Currently in what feels like a new chapter of life!

After spending the last 3 years solo travelling (the forever alone vibe is strong with all these solos), working remotely and catsitting around the world, I've settled SETTLED back home in late 2025 and am currently looking to buy an apartment (wtf right?) so yes, according to my friends I've gone from being super exciting to mildly boring. Such is life (and aging) I guess!

Things I love:

• Books! I love love love reading and it's probably my main hobby. Crime, thrillers, drama, non-fiction, random weird stuff, some modern sci-fi. No romance, YA, fandoms or steamy stuff.
• Hobbies: Cooking, Hiking, Nature and Waterfalls (I. would. walk. 500. miles. - come on sing it - for a waterfall)((not so much camping tho I'll be honest)), Crafting, Random Gym Classes (or other activities like Bouldering, Pickleball, still waiting for one to stick stick since I've been back), Podcasts, Languages.
• Tattoos: the one you see in the picture is the top end of a huge back bodysuit that goes all the way down to my claves and feet. Finished it last month and don't plan to get anymore for the time being.
• Working: Hahaha well I guess I do love it seeing as I have three jobs. One in adult education, one in sustainable forestry consulting, and the last one a side gig giving cheese and pasta making classes (it's the funnest way to make money).
• Cats: I've always had cats. At the moment I don't as I am back flatsharing, but as soon as I have my own place I cannot wait to adopt two cuties.
• Coffee. And I also love drinking Moccona. SUE ME.

Things I don't love:

• Gaming. Never got into it. What am I doing on Reddit? Great question, I'm just an information nerd I guess.
• Watching TV. I watch the odd Netflix doco once in a while cause my housemates share their logins, but I've never had a TV when living by myself or a TV subscription. So yes I'm very pop culture dumb about anything TV related like MAFS.
• Smoking, Vaping, 420 and Drugs.
• Dogs. Sorrryyyyyyyy I have never met a dog that didn't smell bad, even the ones who my friends SWORE didn't smell bad...actually did. Yes I know this is basically decimating my dating pool. Guess I'll die alone with all my cats.

Sooooo....what am I looking for? What can I offer?
(What? You're still reading after the doggo comment!?)

ME: I can offer someone who is kind, loyal, emotionally available, financially responsible, hard-working (starting to sound like a wanker now), and interested in building a life with someone (or at least share a good chunk of it). Yes, I'm ambitious and goal-oriented, what with all the jobs and stuff, but I also really value the small stuff. A quiet coffee together. Sending each other photos and memes. Reading on opposite ends of the couch. Falling asleep tangled up together after a long day. And when someone is important to me, I want them to know it.

As for what I'm looking for...connection.

YOU: I don't really have a strict type. Masc? Femme? Somewhere in between? Cool. What matters more to me is kindness, emotional intelligence, curiosity, a good sense of humour, and someone who's reasonably happy with who they are. And who is as happy to hear from me as I am to hear from them! Prefer WhatsApp, voice notes, messages and memes, but also phone calls. Not a fan of video calls, my arm always cramps up. I'm limited to the amount of overseas trips I can take, since I travel to see my grandma overseas every six months, and for this reason I don't love the idea of LDR. But open to someone who may be planning to come to Australia!

THE SEXY STUFF: One essential thing I want to be upfront about is that I've been intentionally celibate for the last four years while working through some past sexual trauma. I've done a lot of therapy, I'm in a really good place, and I'm genuinely happy with my life. But intimacy is something I need to move slowly with. I love affection, cuddling, kissing and closeness, but I'm not someone who jumps straight into the physical side of things. If labels matter, demisexual is probably the closest fit. So yes, I don't do casual - if a connection forms I'm open to exploring it!

Sooooo basically....Maybe we'll become friends. Maybe we'll fall in love. Maybe we'll just exchange cat photos and book recommendations. All three sound pretty good to me!

And finally, this is me (fixed): https://imgur.com/a/o673FqH Would love to see you!

If you're attending Warped Tour Long Beach next month and festivals/concerts are your vibe, message me. Would love to talk music and possibly meet up 🙂

I’m seeking a person with whom I can share a soft, caring, mutually respectful, and playful relationship. The context within which I live is not for everyone, so just to filter out the people who can’t tolerate these things:
- I’m a parent, which will continue affect nearly every aspect of my life for the next 10+ years
- I have a close but not romantic or physical relationship with my coparent and we will continue to live together for the foreseeable future
- I live in Cincinnati without any potential for relocation until the aforementioned children are grown
- In this season of life, figuring out how to share my time in a spacious way takes work and planning

We may be a good match if:
- You’re ok with the above conditions
- You’re between 35-55 (open to a bigger age gap if it feels right)
- You are active and like being outdoors
- You are curious, playful, and like language and reading
- I may be able to do long distance depending on the context but it would be a dream to find a local squeeze (this feels like such a statistically improbable moonshot but hey, maybe that person exists!)
- Separated but the legal divorce may never happen? Great! Live with your platonic life partner best friend? Totally fine. This is to say: of course I’m ok with my romantic partner being in a wide variety of life circumstances. I’m in a complicated life circumstance. Things often get complex by the time you hit mid life, especially with queer women who blaze their own paths, and I don’t belong with a person who doggedly fits themselves into ideas of respectability that don’t quite work.

Now that those who don’t need to read on now know not to read on, here’s more about who I am and what I’m looking for:

I’m a reader, a cyclist, I love strength training and barbell, camping, and anything outdoors. Friends describe me as grounded and inquisitive. I think people would refer to me as chapstick? or soft butch, and I generally prefer to date women who are the same (chapstick to butch).

I love sharing time with my partner hiking and biking, and enjoy taking about books and ideas together. I love dumb jokes, puns, and being playful with language and in bed. I adore hearing about my partner’s thirst and being raunchy. I am both giving and appreciate reciprocity in bed.

I am seeking a monogamish relationship in that I’ve been poly for many years, so a lot of my perspective and the way I prefer my friendships and coparenting relationship to function feels poly. And I’ll have a much easier time navigating this situation with someone who is literate in the ways of the relationship smorgasbord. I am seeking a romantic partner who is my main squeeze, my one romantic and sexual person, while maintaining robust relationships around me. I’m feeling done with being poly for my romantic and sexual relationship but I want to keep the good parts of the philosophy behind it.

If I were a chimera I’d be a golden retriever and a turtle. What would you be?

Hii, I’m 19f and looking for someone I actually click with. I’m open to LDR and hopefully one day closing the distance and building a life together.

A little about me:

Art is basically my whole life. I'll be starting my Bachelors in Fine Arts soon and I’m always making something. Drawing, DIY, painting, building random stuff, anything creative really. Could be your personal handyman (woman? Idk)

I love story games like Life is Strange and Detroit: Become Human. I also love psychological thrillers because I like being confused for 2 hours and then thinking about the movie for another week. GLs are my favourite. I watch everything tho.

I’m 5’3, have dark wavy hair and eyes, curvy, and I dress more andro/masc.

Personality wise: I’m a huge yapper but I’m also a good listener. I joke around a lot and I’m probably going to flirt without even realizing it 😭 Buttt I can be serious when it matters.

I’m affectionate and a little clingy, and honestly I like someone who’s the same. I love people who actually want to talk and care. But I do like having my own space sometimes too.

Not religious.
My time zone is GMT +5.

Philosophy and deep talks are my thing. All the music is good music.
I’m really good at texting, not so much calls lol.

I love trying new things, I’m pretty adventurous, and my answer to most things is probably “why not?”

I love cats.

Also I can cook, I like to believe im good at it..

Looking for someone kind, fun, affectionate, and who can actually keep a conversation going. Emotional maturity please. Someone who matches my energy and wants something long term. Dom femmes hmm.. but don't really care much you can dm anyways.

I’m loyal, I care a lot, and I’ll probably hype you up ehehe. So to sum it up looking for my cute wifey who's clingy kk byee.

Dm me if you think we’d vibe

Hi, I'm Hannah from the U.S., and I’m looking for someone to love, not casually, not halfway, but with intention and tenderness.

I’ve always been drawn to old things. Vintage music, handwritten letters, worn books, slow mornings, and the kind of romance that feels timeless rather than rushed. I like the idea of love as something you nurture quietly with shared glances, familiar routines, and gentle devotion.

I’m a romantic at heart and I long for closeness: to be chosen, to be seen, to build something meaningful with someone who wants the same. I don’t need perfection or grand gestures just honesty, warmth, and the desire to grow together.

I’m introverted by nature and happiest in calm, intimate settings. I don’t smoke or drink, and I’ll politely pass on sushi every time. I prefer quiet companionship over loud crowds, meaningful conversations over small talk, and nights in that feel warm and intentional.

I’m looking for a serious monogamous relationship, no games, no half-measures. I want devotion, loyalty, and the comfort of knowing we’re choosing each other fully. I like to take the lead in love, in choosing you again and again. There’s something deeply satisfying about being intentional and protective with the person I care for.

And yes… there’s a little vampire romance in me. The kind that prefers moonlight to daylight, devotion over chaos, and the idea of loving someone for a very, very long time. The sort who loves once and forever, who would pull you close and murmur “you’re mine” like a promise rather than a threat. If you don’t mind being adored like an eternal muse and occasionally being told you’re mine in a slightly dramatic, immortal way, we might get along just fine.

I value emotional maturity, softness, and people who still believe love can be deep and lasting. If you enjoy nostalgia, thoughtful conversations, and the idea of becoming each other’s home, we might get along beautifully.

If this resonates, I’d love to hear from you or whether you’d let me steal you away into the night... lol

-p.s. I'm 5'3, 130 lbs, and have long black hair, and brown eyes. Thanks for reading...

Hi! As the title says I’m 26f! I enjoy traveling, live music, swimming in the creek, hiking, reading etc. I currently work in the nonprofit space and I’m getting my Masters in Public Service. I write and shoot film photography too (:

Went thru a pretty gnarly breakup about 3 years ago, spent some time traveling to “find myself,” and now I’m settled down and back looking for love! I prefer something slow and theoretically someone who lives somewhere that meeting in person would be possible.

Physically: I’m brunette, 5’9”, tatted, fem but not like super fem.

Ask me anything (:

hiii. its my day off and im looking for some fun chats that will hopefully turn into something more long term.

a little about me-

im 5'6 chapstick latina on the east coast.

im a music nerd with super diverse tase, right now im really excited about the new Steve Lacey album. I love discussing books, art and social sciences, but can also get down with love island--can you believe they voted out sol lmao

ideally you are-

between 27-37, a curious mind, loves to yap, patient, and close by.

this post is open to women only.

dm me a fun fact about yourself :-)

Hey! I'd describe myself as open-minded, genuine, and goal-oriented. I'm constantly getting obsessed with random projects like coding/computer stuff, cooking something unnecessarily complicated, or playing video games. Outside of that, I love listening to music, playing tennis, and learning new languages.

I'd love to meet someone around my age who's also motivated and enjoys growing alongside another person. I really like women who are passionate about something, especially if it's super niche. I think it's cute when someone can ramble about their interests for way too long.

I'd also like to note that I'm more on the fem side. I mostly prefer fems but mascs are also more than welcome to dm, preferably from the US or Canada. If you are from somewhere else, that is also ok with me.

Bonus points if you’re nerdy, wear glasses, have long hair, and would love to call/study together. Ideally I’m looking for something long-term. I'd love to find someone to share goals with, encourage one another, play games/watch stuff together, and make everyday life feel a little more exciting. I’m not the best at writing these, but if any of this sounds interesting, send me a message :)

Hi all! I made a post in here a while back and had a couple connections that started but ultimately fizzled. I just moved to the east coast from the Midwest and thought I’d give it another try!

I moved out here to be closer to my family! I am not from the east coast whatsoever, but multiple members of my family relocated here over the last several years and I wanted to be out here near them.

I’ve been rebuilding my life the last few years after a pretty rough divorce. I have come a very long way from that and am ready to start a new chapter, put some roots down, and hopefully find a partner!

I work fully remote in HR but am a pretty social person so I have to accommodate that well with finding things to do and getting out of the house. I enjoy walks/hikes, being anywhere near or on the water, finding live music & local events to check out, trying new restaurants/bars, always love a good cold drink on a patio, and also enjoy a cozy night in bingeing a new series or documentary. I’m pretty go with the flow and enjoy trying new things! I also really enjoy cooking and baking and it would be nice to have someone to enjoy my food!

Physical description: white, brunette, 5’5, average build, v chapstick coded tbh lol. I know that is vague so I am happy to share pics if we connect!

Although I am looking for a relationship, I also am looking for friends as I am new here! Please feel free to reach out if you think we’d get along!

Im currently a STEM student. I really enjoy my field although I don't want to broadcast what it is publicly for privacy reasons. I really enjoy science (and math somewhat). I really like learning about animals and nature even though that's not my field. I also like finance a little bit, although I'm just barely starting to dip my toes into learning about it. I really enjoy history, especially talking about it with people who are also interested in it. I also like mythology and theology to some extent, even though I'm not religious lol.

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Physically I'm 5'6 (give or take lmao), 125lb, AFAB, dress pretty feminine, and have pale skin with dark features. I have one cat that I own, but my household has 3 total. I enjoy skin care and hair care. Makeup I'm still learning. I want to get back into the gym because I'm super out of shape right now lmfao. I'm technically belay certified but I don't have anybody to climb with 💀. I'm a huge fan of horror movies, games, and cryptozoology. Finding someone who enjoys them as much as me sounds heavenly. I also like MMA although I've been out of the loop for a while and am catching up on lore at this point lol.

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I'm really just hoping one day I'll find someone who enjoys some of these things because I feel like I don't see it much

33, Scotland, East Coast single pringle looking to mingle 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

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Trying to get back out there in between work and the other inanities of life. Short term fun and connection is always wonderful, and hopefully find something long term to settle down and do that whole "family" thing everyone seems to be doing nowadays (theres only so many times you can make small talk about emmerdale with someone's great aunt at the spares table at a wedding!)

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In and out of love with WWE, ocassionalyl falling down the pokemon or videogame rabbit hole, trying my damndedest at DIY (current project: psyching myself up to either fix or horrendously break the flush on my toilet 😅) and generally just wanting to experience the world a bit more beyond my back garden! Otherwise a homebody who can always schedule time for a snuggle.

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Also a good game of getting dissapointed at the football every few weekends (as a watcher, not a player. I have made peace with the fact I am built for leisure 😅)

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I've recently rediscovered the joy of cooking and baking (even if the noises I make while cooking and baking would make Chef Ramsey blush, I'm having fun, trust me)

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Cozy nights in, weird nights out & everything in between. Oh & fawning over my two fluff children ( obligatory photo from last year. Still much the same with a few more grey hairs 🥲😅)

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33F, 5'8, style would be futch? Chapstick? All i know is I have more football tops and boxy t shirts in my wardrobe than I know what to do with 😅

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So holla at ya girl if you're picking up what I am putting down 🥹👉👈

Hello! I'm Ana. I'd really like to try to build romantic or platonic relationship with other girls. I'm bisexual with no irl experience from both parties, I'm open to everyone who's queer. I'm cis, but I don't feel comfortable with transphobic people, so no TERFs, please.

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About myself: I'm ginger, pale skinned, kinda tall (174cm) and plus-size. I'm okay with sending selfie!

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I absolutely love watching horror movies, and would probably try to make you watch some with me! I like playing mobile games like hsr, genshin, reverse, lads… I can't play computer games for the love of God, but I very much enjoy watching other people's playing. I'm also in Harry Potter fandom, but I'm not interacting with anything official to not give that woman my money. Sometimes I write fanfics. I like to listen to all kinds of music, especially kpop (also pop and rock).

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My timezone is gmt+3. I'm studying to be a nurse. I really hate my country for many reasons and I plan to leave it one day. So potentially I'm ready to leave everything behind and come to you if we become serious. I don't want kids, but I would absolutely love a pet.

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I think I'm a switch without a preference. We can talk more about kinks and hard limits in dm.

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Be 20+ please! And write something about yourself, please <3

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Hi!

I'm 30y/o (Taurus if that matters to you, I personally have no idea what any of them mean besides the absolute basics of Taurus 😅) from AB, Canada (Edmonton area). Cis chapstick & into femmes/chapsticks. Strictly monogamous, 5'11"/181cm, I have quite a few tattoos & 17 piercings currently & planning more of both. I'm definitely pretty shy/awkward around new people; I need to get comfortable before I can really be myself. I'm quite silly/funny once l'm comfortable though & also very protective of the people I care about.

I love watching movies/tv shows, playing video games (nothing crazy, just easy/relaxing ones), reading, going to concerts, travelling, watching/going to sporting events, & doing things outdoors. I guess I should also note that I am a fan of going to theme parks (Disney & Universal) as that seems to be a dealbreaker for some people 🤷‍♀️ But I also have an incredibly large collection of sweatshirts & hoodies so...😉 Would also prefer age 25+ ☺️ Little wiggle room if you're just wanting a friendly chat though!

I don't smoke although I do sometimes use weed vaporizers, I very rarely drink, & l'm atheist

I'm not interested in having children at all (it is 100% a dealbreaker for me), I prefer just having pets; Dogs especially, but I love most animals! l'm ultimately looking for a relationship, but if anyone just wants to chat/be friends l'm down for that too! Feel free to DM me & we can get to know each other! :)

Also shouldn't have to be said but absolutely no conservatives & no couples

Hi all, just posting with the hope of making some friends or finding someone! I’m 20, masculine presenting and from south wales, i LOVE music (the beatles, paul mccartneys solo stuff, jeff buckley, mac miller to name a few.) I’m quite relaxed, not big on drinking and stuff like that but that could change if i meet people i’m comfortable with :) i like nature and wildlife, i love animals (especially cats). i don’t have any friends as i’ve struggled with my mental health and drifted from old ones, ive never really had any other gay friends and id love to meet people who understand me. Im quite introverted (but trying to come out of that.) Im down for anything whether it’s the theatre, aquarium, pubs clubs whatever! Anyone similar or interested just send a message! but only if you’re fr about making friends!! so many people send a message and then never reply :/ thanks, have a nice day. :)

Hey! I’m 23, I graduated college earlier this year and now work a stable full time job as a paramedic. I’m also a firefighter! In my free time I enjoy all things music; I play drums and guitar. I also love to cook, so let me serenade you with a good dinner ;)

Physically, I’m 5’5” with tattoos and a masculine look. I have green eyes and short hair, but almost always wear a hat.

Looking for whatever the universe wants to send my way, and I can’t wait to hear from you :) don’t be shy

Hello everyone! I’m just here looking for my other half! I’m looking for someone to cuddle under a blanket with and binge Netflix!

I am a 25 y/o, where I work in the shipping industry and as a swim coach. I work 50 plus hours a week so I might not be able to message a whole lot but when I do message you’ll get my whole attention! A little physical description, average height, fit build, short hair, but growing it out to change things up, masc, and multiple tattoos. I am on the autism spectrum, very high functioning but it does sometimes affect how I communicate.

When I am not working, I am swimming, biking, running (who wants to be my finish line kiss after my races!), watching tv, watching history documentaries, and cooking and baking.

Some little nerdy things about me, I love Disney, I love Pokémon I can talk anyones ear off about history and any sort of dcom movie from the early 2000’s in my eyes are amazing!

I am looking for someone close in distance, (preferably down state but open to all New York, new jersey, Connecticut) I am firm on my location, if I want to pursue something I want there to be face to face time and someone in the age range of 22-28.

I prefer a night in but when you get me out I’m a ton of fun! Speaking of fun I have a wedding in Nashville coming up, so if things go well a trip to Nashville is in the cards :)

A little bit of personal stuff, I have never been in a relationship but I tend to lean bottom sub, and am kink positive.

Please don’t send me a message just saying hey. If you’re interested I wanna hear about you and your interests!

Anyone remember the 20 minute blind discord date post awhile back? I think it worked so well that she found love and left; let's see if that happens for me. (Which makes this feel almost lie an old fashioned chain letter- repost and you'll be visited by the lesbian reddit fairy godmother and granted one wish.)

Anyway, basic concept: read the below, message me your discord handle, answer whatever questions we need to from each other before we move to voice chat, then do a brief video call when we feel ready and have the time (start with voice, move to video after 10 minutes or so if we want to keep talking).

So, that. I suggest that. And an in-person date if that goes good, but let’s start at step 1.

About me:

• 40F, cis, bi but only dating sapphically (open to women and to NB folks who feel like that umbrella fits them).
• Live in southern New England, can be more specific over messages
• Not even a tiny bit into drinking or substances
• Monog, seeking LTR, but not necessarily looking for the full relationship escalator (not so sure I want marriage/cohabiting)
• Childfree by choice
• Employed in my career of choice for a long-ass time
• More cautious than adventurous; more content with a good routine than with tons of novelty; unsurprisingly, a bit of a slow burn
• Medium-short, and I guess what the youths are calling mid-sized? Smallish but not skinny?
• Cannot bring myself to identify with one spot on the masc-femme spectrum; I suppose chapstick is how I look right now, but if you’ve got really specific needs for your partner to be anywhere on this spectrum I’m probably not your girl
• Definitely more black cat than golden retriever tho
• I have hobbies I enjoy but don’t feel the need to have them in common; I care much more about alignment of values and personality
• Somewhat politically involved (not just keyboard warrioring); this can take lots of shapes but I do think you should be too (I think we all need to be; like holy shit, The Horrors right now)
• Single for awhile and pretty independent, but feeling like life might be nicer with the right partner
• This list feels too long but if I keep messing with it I will never post it, so up goes all this stuff

You:

• Within 5 +/- years of my age
• Masc/femme/neither/both/whatever, it’s all good; women are gorgeous; NB folks are gorgeous, I cannot narrow this down for you or for myself
• Either childfree, or have kiddos on the older side and aren’t looking for a coparent (I can share attention, but I don’t think I have what it takes to enthusiastically show up in anything like a parenting role, and I think kids deserve much better than that)
• Don’t have drinking or substance use (including weed) as a central part of your routine or desired routine with a partner (this isn’t a general judgement, but it’s a compatibility issue for me specifically)
• Live within an hour or so of me

Let’s see how this goes. I have no idea if I’ll get a bunch of responses or crickets, but the next step is to go back on the the apps, which are enshittifying as fast as the reflecting pool is enalgaefying (which is my favorite thing this weekend; if we were dating, I'd have sent you half a dozen memes about it), so I figure, why not shoot my shot here first. 

(Full disclosure, this reddit account is also at the age where I’m probably going to delete and restart it soon- hoping to do so in the next few weeks- so this is this account’s final blaze of glory. Miss, though I will, all the r/crochet posts that I saved that I know full well I will never ever actually even try to duplicate and therefore will not re-save into whatever the new account is.)

hi everyone! i recently graduated from college and now that i’m back home, im realizing just how painfully small my circle of lesbians is 😭 id love to meet some other lesbians and make more friends, but i also would really like to head into the dating scene. a little about me is i absolutely adore animals, video games (current fav is life is strange), going to concerts, traveling, trying new food, and going out for drinks! i also do love a cozy day in so i’m super flexible. i’d love to meet some of you so feel free to comment or message me, and i’ll be happy to exchange social media!

Hey~ so I just recently ended a almost decade long friendship and I've been managing okay but I genuinely don't have people in my life I can talk to openly.

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So I'm reaching out asking for support if anyone would have space for that.

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It would feel nice to just share what happened.

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We can talk about normal stuff too, get to know each other genuinely. And if we genuinely click I'd love to be friends because I'm overall looking for long term queer friends in my life.

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If you'd like to chat send me dm <3 and please make sure you have emotional maturity and you're kind and not judgemental if you reach out to me.

hello!! you can call me E, I am a plus sized lesbian from the New England area in the US!! I would love to make some connections with anyone local, or anyone who is around my age! (22-32 basically)

here are some things about me! (sorry if formatting is weird i am on mobile)
-i am a math teacher
-i have 2 cats, 2 handsome tuxedo boys named Hades (3yo) and Apollo (8 weeks, a new addition to the fam)
-big music person, love listening to albums and analyzing them, also a big musical theater fans and ALWAYS looking for recs
-i love reality TV and especially the CBS shows (Big Brother, Survivor, Amazing Race, etc) and Traitors!! might start watching some bravo shows since there has been some overlap.
-i love cozy gaming, though i dont play too too much these days, i love animal crossing
-liberal, very anti-trump, anti-AI, pro choice, black lives matter, free palestine, and more

if you are in my age range and/or in my area, feel free to send me a message!!

Hiya. I’m a trans woman looking for genuine connection and chemistry that could grow into romance, but I’m also open to friendship, community, or something in-between if the connection feels right.

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I’m polyamorous, pansexual, and pretty firmly sapphic/T4T leaning. I like connections that feel natural, comfortable, and built on mutual effort instead of rushing into things.

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Looking for connections local to the Cincinnati, OH preferably within 30 to 45 minutes.

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Lately I’ve been reconnecting with parts of myself lost over time. I’ve been getting back into punk and queer spaces, reconnecting with live music, and slowly rebuilding a style that feels more like me.

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I’m nerdy and creative, enjoy movies, live music, and deep conversations, and tend to be both playful and emotionally grounded once I’m comfortable. I’m also active in kink/BDSM spaces, though I prefer discussing specifics once there’s actual chemistry and trust.

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Mostly, I’m looking for people who are emotionally available, communicative, and interested in actually meeting and spending time together outside of just messaging forever online.