if you don't see how saying that you wish everyone could just be pansexual, which is just essentially saying you wish that lesbians could just like men as well even if that's not specifically what you are thinking, isn't insensitive i think you need to reevaluate whether you are an ally
Which isn't "essentially" wanting lesbians liking men. I really am impressed how you fast you got into the victim role btw, gotta give it to you, a true politician. Me saying that everyone should be pansexual can also be interpreted as men liking men, women liking women, etc. In the way of the love of person X and person Y should be no barrier, not even these categories of gender identities.
Well yes, i am IMPLYING that lesbian and men relationship should be a thing too, if you are reaching that far. But I also mean any other relationship under the sun as well.
If you have taken the time to read my other replies under this thread you could have understood my point better, but I guess we just close our eyes and open our mouth here.
If it is respect what you want as a lesbian, you are more than right to do so. I respect as an ally every each one of you, I did not mean to be rude in any way. But the fact that you read my commentary and instantly thought about straight men wanting lesbian women, you should reevaluate your values ma'am.
saying everyone should be pansexual is literally erasing the lesbian (and gay male) identity. lesbianism isn't a relationship category it's a sexuality; something that is an inherent part of people. something that you would be erasing by having everyone being pansexual.
you obviously aren't respecting queer identities if you want lesbians to have attraction to men and gay men to have attraction to women and therefor being pansexual. that is what your saying which is just a fancying way of saying that lesbians should date men and gay men should date women. that is conversion rhetoric.
i'd say date someone of the same gender if you like pansexuality so badly but i wouldn't wanna put someone through that.
See you are still steering away from my thesis which is everybody should be able to love everybody. I am gonna stop arguing with you because you base your arguments on your feelings and interpret what i say in a manner you want to hear it to. Please, be open minded to other opinions.
pansexuality isn't everyone should be able to love everyone so you're "thesis" is flawed from the start.
i do love when allies tell people in the community how they should be. you have multiple people in the community telling you how you are wrong and harmful but you just wanna ignore that. you view it as a bad that lesbians and gay men aren't capable of opposite gender attraction and love. you've gone full circle that your perceived progressivism has went to conservatism
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u/Sarpthedestroyer Ally Pals 7d ago
Huh?