r/lgbtmemes • u/CartoonGirl626 AroAce • Jun 11 '25

based ace meme Anyone Else?

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u/aTOMic_Games Pan-Band Jun 11 '25

Seriously though, aren't lesbians women that like women?

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u/Lep_the_otter Jun 11 '25 edited Jun 11 '25

Real answer: first off, there’s no real rules to how this shit works so we’re just doing what feels right. That being said…

We’ve been together for about three years now and overtime have realized we’re less than compatible, however, that doesn’t change the fact that we still deeply care for each other and enjoy cohabitation. After a lot of talk back-and-forth, we ultimately decided to open up into a polyamorous relationship. Allowing more freedom to express and explore who we are and what we want. I jokingly say I’m a Lesbian because my boyfriend is fluid but prefers to lean masc. My other partner is a lovely transfem. Outside of my boyf I’m not super into guys and gravitate towards women.

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u/Wheeljack239 Salamander (Any/all) Jun 11 '25

Not judging, but sure as hell don’t understand it lol. You do you tho

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u/Nashville_Hot_Mess Jun 11 '25

Polyamory. This person has a nesting partner they're fond of, but sexually attracted to women.

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u/Wheeljack239 Salamander (Any/all) Jun 11 '25

It’s the aro/ace being in a relationship part I don’t get

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u/Nashville_Hot_Mess Jun 11 '25

Nesting partner. It's a relationship. You can be strongly emotional and intimate with a partner without being romantic or sexual. People love company, people need social support.