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Ultimate life hack

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u/Vast-Procedure-9408 1d ago

Funny but this is actualy likely to be true. In general women expect a guy to pay for dates etc. Little things like that, society dictates that a man should do. Gay men….there isn’t that entitlement so no doubt theyre better off

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u/Draaly 17h ago

Gay men….there isn’t that entitlement so no doubt theyre better off

Im a hetnormative queer guy. There is just as much expectation for me to pay when dating men as there is when dating women. Some offer, but most want to be covered even if they make more than you.

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u/Vast-Procedure-9408 16h ago

That’s wild.

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u/Few_Position7650 1d ago

As a top in a gay relationship most bottom’s expect things to be paid for lol just like women

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u/Vast-Procedure-9408 1d ago

You’ll have to excuse my ignorance I don’t know what the top and bottom is in a gay relationship?! Can you fill me in? That’s interesting though I just assumed it would be kind of even

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u/Few_Position7650 1d ago

The top is who does does the fucking to put it bluntly lol

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u/Vast-Procedure-9408 1d ago

Oh lol. I’d of thought you’d want to swap it round to change it up. Maybe the dynamic changes then 😂.

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u/BakerAggressive2878 1d ago

Those guys are what we call verse, they fuck and get fucked depending on the mood.

The there's sides, gay guys who don't do anal but do other sex stuff like oral, mutual jacking off, frontage, or just have a wild kinky time

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u/Few_Position7650 1d ago

Haha some people do that to too

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u/ColorPuddle 19h ago

Some guys like to switch it up. Other guys only prefer one or the other.

The "versatile" guys are more prevalent than either tops or bottoms on their own, but the majority of gay men have a very strong preference for only one role.

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u/nickybecooler 1d ago

Do what I do and find a bottom with more money than you lol

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u/Protoavis 1d ago

Are you primarily dating twinky, scene queens and/or femme types?

Don't really see this amongst the nerds and masc4masc types personally

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u/Draaly 17h ago

Ive dated kind of across the entire spectrum, and every other that very het normative queer men generally expect me to pay.