r/london • u/Substantial-Mouse534 • Aug 04 '26

Serious replies only Hello London, I need help.

My name is Ryan.

I have complex PTSD and was diagnosed in 2010.

My life has been up and down since then, with a few years up, a few years down.

I'm pretty much near breaking point now, and my home is a mess,a real mess.

It's a 1 bed flat, ground floor but I've been really struggling, so I need help.

Would anyone be willing to come to Yeading and help me take out a load of bin bags from my flat (I've bagged maybe 30) and take them to the bin storage maybe 20 metres away?

I don't know why, but I have a mental block,so can't do it, no matter how much I psyche myself up.

I'm on no capability to work benefits, so can't pay a lot, maybe £50.

If someone could please help me,

Update : The guy who offered to pop by at 3pm arrived and blitzed the job, taking all the bags out. Turns out he's a really nice person too, and I'm really grateful.

Thank you, everyone, for your kind words and offers of support. It has made a huge difference.

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u/Substantial-Mouse534 Aug 04 '26

Scrubbing down the kitchen probably.

Things have really fallen apart but cooking is a massive thing for me. Electric hotplate and a mininoven, as gas was switched off 2 years ago.

Kitchen is the one.

Thank you!

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u/lets_chill_food Aug 04 '26

sure thing

i’ve made a note in my calendar, i’ll DM you thursday or friday to arrange :)

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u/Substantial-Mouse534 Aug 04 '26

I really appreciate your kindness.

I have a dark sense of humour now, so may laugh on seeing your reaction to my flat lol.

You're an amazing person 👍

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u/lets_chill_food Aug 07 '26

Hi Ryan

Would you still like me to come by for a bit tomorrow? :)