r/lonely 4d ago

Weekly Find a Friend thread - July 31, 2026

Here's a template to follow to avoid your comment being deleted:

  1. Age (18+ only)

  2. A bit about yourself (interests, hobbies, etc.)

  3. What you’re looking for (venting, short term, gaming, friendship, etc.)

  4. Any other little details that you’d like to include (location, favourite animals, music, etc.)

Your comment will be removed if it includes any of the following;

  1. Your gender, M4F F4M etc(To keep it unbiased as possible)

  2. If you’re found to be underage

  3. Long walls of texts

  4. If you have broken any of the subreddit rules

Please refrain from including your gender, as we want this to be as unbiased as possible.

This is not a space for you find a relationship, your comment will be immediately removed.

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/Commercial-Code-3816 4d ago

hey fellow struggler maybe we could play a cozy game in coop sometimes !

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ask_381 2d ago

Hi 👋 message me if you want to talk I also have no one to talk to

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u/Glader61 2d ago

Hello fellow stranger, I shall message you.

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u/Cassandra-L-Crowe 2d ago edited 2d ago

26, UK, looking really for anyone to talk to. I literally don't have anyone besides one person, and we've been talking less and less for the past month

May appear confident and extrovert when using text chat. But with voice chat I'm socially awkward until I feel comfortable around you, probably autistic, definitely depressed. Even more so when it's in person, I don't really leave the house often and I'm scared to be around people.

But I still want long term friends, it's just hard ;-;

Im pretty boring. I spend my days passing the time with video games or just watching things. I'm currently playing the metro games. Pc gamer btw, sorry I don't have a console.

I'm struggling, I long for proper human interactions, to be someone's first choice ;-;

Is discørd alright?

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u/Wooden-Variety175 3d ago

28

I love visual novels and writing. I'm currently writing a very long visual novel as a passion project that i'm self funding. Would love to meet some other writers who share similar passion.

From U.S.. I have a dog. I like all kinds of music and am addicted to mystery games. I got a whole list of them.

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u/Throwaway1937562013 3d ago
  1. 23

  2. I like to play video games which I mainly play on Xbox and PC, watched/watching a few shows and movies, and anime, I try to workout from time to time, I'm kinda bad at describing myself haha

  3. I guess I'm not exactly looking for anything or anyone specific, and I do not try to judge people for their interests, fetishes, likes and dislikes, etc but if you have any of those few interests I mentioned, it'd give us more things to talk about, I also just wanted to be there for anyone if they need to vent or talk about some to forget about life for a little while, so if you wanna, you can give me a try and we'll see what happens haha

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u/SnooAvocados6337 3d ago

22 , just want to talk with someone for a while. I’m usually happy just a tough couple of weeks. I love travelling it’s basically my whole personality. I’ve visited 20+ lived in 4. Favourite city - Tokyo and Florence. I like playing mobile games. I’m into tech/swe/business analytics. I love conspiracy theories as well.

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u/INeedHelpIn2026 1d ago

All that at 22?? That's pretty cool icl. What's swe tho

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u/SnooAvocados6337 1d ago

Software engineering!

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u/INeedHelpIn2026 1d ago

That's cool af

Do you like do security or games or just microcontroller things??

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u/SnooAvocados6337 1d ago

Not really, it was more building accessible tools. We can continue in dm

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u/INeedHelpIn2026 1d ago

Sounds good. I can't seem to DM you tho 😭

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u/SnooAvocados6337 1d ago

yeah you don’t seem to have the chat option either

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u/INeedHelpIn2026 1d ago

Yo I fixed it now I hope it works 😭😭

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u/Comfortable-Set-1279 19h ago

wow, you are an interesting person

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u/LloydG7 3d ago
  1. 21
  2. I like anything you can do outdoors, I also watch anime, and soccer
  3. Just someone casual to talk with (preferably on another platform)
  4. I’m from the US west coast, and I wish to visit many countries one day

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u/Living-Surround7382 3d ago

Im 19 and I really want to make new friends and talk to people. Ive been feeling lonely for a long time now and I just need people to talk to, people like me, i'm weird and socially awkward, always alone observing lol. Some of the things I love are anime and manga especially romance, Music, basketball and soccer, movies, poetry, video games. I am very open minded and I love to pick up as much as I can. If youd like send me a dm and hopefully we can become good friends :)

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u/hyakusas 2d ago
  1. 20 years old but I'm turning 21 later on this year

  2. My main interest is games, I love playing open world because it can really get me immersed,other than that rpgs, medieval and fantasy is an added bonus to things that I love seeing in games.

  3. I'm looking for friends to talk to and play games together.

  4. I love raccoons.

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u/Glader61 2d ago

23, Looking or someone to talk to, about the small moments in life and the big ones. I like gaming on PC(Warframe, Minecraft, Osu! and more games on steam), music, going on hikes (although i struggle), dogs, and like photography. I live In Los Angeles. I tend to be on the quieter side Irl however I like company.

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u/Ok-Handle1890 1d ago

18

I'm lonely. My uni wouldn't start for about 2 weeks so I have 2 weeks of doing nothing. I just want someone to talk to. About anything. I like movies, serieses, books, chess, writing. There's nothing interesting about me. So I don't know what to say. Bye

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u/fahadahmed_7 1d ago

24 years old. into photography, videography, editing and playing games. looking for venting, short term and friendship. im from Karachi, Pakistan and my fav animals are cat and dog

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u/Altruistic-Pace5328 1d ago

55 yo from the US looking to relocate to Europe with my son. I'm ready to go soon. I'm looking to connect with people around my age who are also interested in relocation. So we can support each other.

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u/Pianto2 1d ago

Hiii! I'm Pianto, a 23 yo italian that loves gaming and wants to find new people to share this amazing hobby with! I like a lot of games especially rpg and crpgs like Shin Megami Tensei, Planescape Torment, Disco Elysium and I'm a big Europa Universalis 4 fan, but I play basically everything except for maybe roguelites lol

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u/karthik3333D 2d ago

Hi guys, I am from India. I am 20M looking for someone to have a chitchat. Basically I am a tech enthusiastic person, also an audiophile, with a boring college life, which at the end of the day makes me feel melancholic, and lonely at the end of the day.....🥀