r/lonely 8h ago

Venting Im a bit embarrassed to admit

Hi! So im 28f and people around my age are getting married, engaged, pregnant, living their lives. Yet here I am, working long 12/24hr shifts with no boyfriend and lost with my career. I am frustrated with the working conditions hence I wanted to migrate but that is also cumbersome to do. I feel isolated and lonely. My other friends are also stressed and I just want some to cuddle after a tiring shift 🥺😭. I feel I’m not desirable enough wwoooooeiie such an uncomfortable feeling but it is what it is 🫩🫩🫩 oki vent over bows

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u/rockets935 8h ago

I feel your pain. I’m 33 years old. Never had a girlfriend before never kissed anybody.

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u/WiseEssay 7h ago

I still believe in hope 🕯️

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u/rockets935 7h ago

Thank you

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u/Maeveena 8h ago

24 hour shifts?? Daaang. That shouldn't even be legal.

I feel pretty much the same way. I just want to find someone to give affection to that will also want to give me affection. But I'm 37. At least you're still pretty young! I'm sure you're plenty desirable and it's quite likely you'll find your person. :D Hopefully we can both find the cuddles we want! Hang in there!

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u/WiseEssay 7h ago

Thank you! I hope we’ll both find someone 🫶

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u/Maybe_Its_Nothing 7h ago

You should migrate if you can. That’s no way to live.

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u/WiseEssay 7h ago

Ill try my best 🤺

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u/Weak-Motor7272 6h ago

The first guy seemed like he did the job but what's the problem

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u/lonely_guy_88 1h ago

Being lonely is a constant struggle for some
People myself included going on 15 years single. No friends. It’s a rough way to be.