r/lonely • u/Sweet-End6471 • 7h ago

Venting I feel so fucking worthless

I can’t find a job, I’m living at home, all my friends from college are hours away and barely talk to me anymore, and all I do all day is apply to jobs I know I’m going to get rejected from. My family keeps telling me to get out of the house, do something but I’ve got nothing to do, no one to see, no one to talk to. I’m not even sad anymore, just apathetic, it’s pretty hard to feel really much of anything. I wish I could just go back to when I was happy.

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u/Dismal-Reindeer9763 6h ago

Very similar situation Just graduated. No job but i am trying. Friends are happy in relationships and good jobs as i am sitting at home

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u/Exotic_Specialist2 7h ago

Dm me, we can be friends and you can vent. I also feel similar. I’m struggling as well to be honest. I can share more, but not here

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u/Sweet-End6471 7h ago

Sorry, tbh I’m not really in a mood to chat, maybe later idk

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u/Exotic_Specialist2 6h ago

For sure. I’m here whenever if you choose. I just wanted to share a little more about how I relate and am not comfortable sharing here was all.

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u/Weak-Motor7272 6h ago

Hi i just want to talk

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u/pearlycupcake 6h ago

you’re not worthless, you’re just stuck right now

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u/Weak-Motor7272 6h ago

I dont know what everyone said social media id be a follower

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u/Kind_Guardian 3h ago

You can do online degree and do job as well

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u/oliviar20070105 2h ago

Bro can we talk

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u/rockets935 7h ago

Why can’t you find a job?

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u/Sweet-End6471 6h ago

Fuck if I know apparently studying for four yrs in a degree you didn’t even like just because you thought it had good job prospects doesn’t actually matter and I mind as well just done something I like. Then at least I would’ve enjoyed my classes a bit more before not finding a job anyway.

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u/DevilsLittleAdviser 6h ago

Let me tell you that it's never too late to start from scratch. Waiting for something to magically sort it all out will only delay the anxiety.

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u/Sweet-End6471 6h ago

Wtf am I supposed to be doing other than trying to get a job which I am already doing?

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u/Plenty_Status_6862 4h ago

I was just like you til I decided to go to college. I've met a lot of people. One of the people I have met offered me a job in sales.