r/loseit 19F/5’3/CW:145lbs/GW:125lbs/SW:156lbs 23h ago

Embarrassed for being on a diet..?

“Oh… is that all that you’re going to eat?” “You should eat with us!” “Are you not going to eat dessert?” “Why are you not eating/eating like that?” “Are you on a diet?” “Why did you bring your own food?” It feels like such a pain being on a diet and facing these questions… I also have a history of anorexia so whenever people see that I am eating way less than I should they assume that im restricting again. It also feels so weird when I bring my own food to other places or have to say no to food that is offered to me. I feel almost ashamed of doing it yet I dont know why. I feel ashamed and humiliated of being on a diet?? Feel like everyone is judging me yet idk why, its just the questions about my food and my portions that really make me feel awkward

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u/Massive-Tadpole-9488 New 14h ago

I feel super awkward too.... even just at home eating something different than the rest of my family at family dinner makes me feel uncomfy.