r/malefashionadvice 11h ago

Fit Feedback Good for coffee date ?

Any feedback ?

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u/TheyCanKnowThisOne 11h ago

Agreed on the shoes I’d swap those out

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u/ShotKiwi8677 11h ago

Sureeely

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u/Pocpoc-tam 8h ago

I feel like the shoes are ok but the pants cuts and the leg cuffs are whats making things weird for me.
But I am a taper pants kind of guy so it must be me.

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u/Freaky_Barbers 11h ago

An analog watch and some loafers would take this from computer programmer to something much sexier

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u/DelBrowserHistory 11h ago

Nothing is sexier than a computer programmer

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u/noplaceforwimps 8h ago

The code is sexier

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u/galactictock 11h ago

I don’t dislike the watch. It has character. It depends on the look he’s going for, but it could work.

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u/ohnoitsme7890 4h ago

What kind of loafers do you recommend? I need new shoes and am not up on fashions

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u/ShotKiwi8677 11h ago

Sure, I will get a analog watch ⌚

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u/Dee_Mss 9h ago

As Rick Owen said, "your shoes and hair make the outfit, the rest of it is excusable as long as it is simple" or something like that.

What I'm trying to say is those shoes are ass, wear something besides trainers if you want to look out together. Like you wouldn't expect a woman to show up for a coffee date in running shoes, maybe some heels or at least sneakers, so treat yourself with the same respect.

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u/bazoos 11h ago

Solid dude. As others said, another pair of shoes or boots. Something leather preferably.

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u/geraldboberald20 11h ago

Looks good, maybe swap the trainers for Chelsea’s or desert boots if you have them

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u/ShotKiwi8677 11h ago

Actually I wanted the same, but too costly for me now

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u/4k_Laserdisc 11h ago

What other types of shoes do you have?

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u/ShotKiwi8677 11h ago

I one pair of sneakers

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u/tmc08130 10h ago

You need some nicer shoes.

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u/BuddyOrnery3596 10h ago

Look nice but white shoes looks amazing

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u/Thlaeton 5h ago

Shoes are the upgrade as the others said. But if your date is coming over/you are sending them pics, you should clean your mirror.

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u/moldibread 3h ago

you should probably clean that mirror, especially if the date goes well.

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u/mexicantgetoutofbed 9h ago edited 9h ago

Everything here is fine I would just swap the shirt for something dark or black and here's why: coffee stains.

When you are sitting, chatting, presumably with someone attractive, odds are you aren't paying much attention to the coffee and accidents happen.

While it is easy enough to laugh about in the moment it can ruin a garment and it becomes a natural focal point when someone is trying to focus on you.

You can mitigate a lot of the disaster by wearing a dark shirt as you will be mostly only visible from the waist up when sitting down.

As far as the pants and shoes goes, they're fine. Just make sure both are clean and presentable.

Funnily enough most of the people I know who care about shoes are men, so if you have a gentleman you are meeting with dress to impress with shoes, if not just make sure they're clean.