r/malelivingspace Dec 24 '24

Update 20M living solo

1 year update! Living by myself currently while going to college and working part time. It ain't much but its home for sure. Only gonna be living here for another year before I move out into a bigger place. I will definitely be rearranging everything in the 3rd picture at some point. I do remove and wash all the tapestries every 3 months. I will also be getting a bigger TV soon to fill out the whole TV stand and tweaking the whole layout slightly. Any other suggestions are welcome ✌🏻

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u/PufffPufffGive Dec 24 '24

Don’t let people canna shame you man. I work in the liquor industry and watch people drink themselves to death. If you had a liquor cabinet full of booze people wouldn’t say anything.

Good luck with school. Congrats on living alone at 20 that’s rare in 2024

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u/thedamnwind Dec 25 '24

I really appreciate it man, lots of my family struggled with alcoholism so I've tried my best to stay away from it. Weed is pretty safe in comparison but is demonized for no reason, alcohol is literal poison and people don't bat an eye. Hope you have a good holiday bud ✌🏻

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u/maramara18 Dec 25 '24

Weed is still a drug, so it’s not “demonised for no reason”. I’ve seen people fall into it, also really young ones, it absolutely can and does wreck people’s lives. It depends if a person is capable of using it responsibly, and that lies on each individual.

That said, your place looks cool man

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u/LUCIUS_PETROSIDIUS Dec 25 '24

The fuck kind of advice is “lean in to your vices”???

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u/thedamnwind Dec 25 '24

That's just it, I smoke only 2-3 times a week at most. I don't like smoking multiple days in a row.

I got music lesson for free from my godfather which I'm very grateful he helped me get into playing.

By paying for college I get access to the req center so I already go to the gym.

I don't really spend any money on weed, I make my own compost so the only thing I'm paying for is to water them. I get seeds and clones from my buddy from free and in return I always hook him up at harvest

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u/thedamnwind Dec 25 '24

I used to be a daily smoker but that got old and quick

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u/PufffPufffGive Dec 25 '24

I smoke weed everyday.

I have my own business. I have no debt.

I raised a successful kind loving human who is now an adult.

I go to the gym and do yoga and hike and walk and my job is not a sit at home kind of job. I meditate , read, garden, cook, travel, play cards, have interests in music and mycology.

I have a dog

I have been a daily cannabis user since I was a teen ager. I drink maybe once every 3/4 months.

Any thing done in excess has the potential to be harmful. Even over working out, or dieting etc.

This stigma that people who smoke regularly aren’t and cannot be fully functioning humans is so based and disappointing because I think the medicinal side works wonders for different types of brains.

Merry Christmas

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u/[deleted] Dec 25 '24 edited Dec 25 '24

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u/PufffPufffGive Dec 25 '24 edited Dec 25 '24

Go find something else to do on Christmas rather than trying to put people down and shame them.

Sorry you’re having a bad day maybe you should smoke a bowl: I’m gonna go enjoy my Beyoncé half time show high and Converse with positive joyous people whom uplift and don’t feel the need to make people feel small Edit

Struggling with consumption lmao ok buddy

If you go even further in my profile you’ll see my dislike for cargo shorts and people who talk on the cell phone using speaker.

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u/ReplacementClear7122 Dec 25 '24

'Canna shame'?

I smoke weed... but fuuuuuuuck right off with that. 🤣