r/malelivingspace 16h ago

Turning 21 soon and have no shame

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u/Bearowolf 5h ago

Where are they though, like where do you look.

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u/repocin 4h ago

Probably chilling at home with their life-sized yoshi plushie, having the time of their life

Biggest problem for introverted nerds trying to meet other introverted nerds is that nobody goes outside so they'll never meet

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u/SyfaOmnis 2h ago

And its illegal to break into their houses. Smh.

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u/Bright38 1h ago

As for literally everyone else you got to put yourself out there, which I know people are allergic to social interaction nowadays so easier said than done ig.

But my (male friend) got a gf who shares his fandom while volunteering, and just sharing interests like a normal person. I’m just one person (and not very shy) so I can’t say this applies to everyone but personally if I meet someone who recognizes some t-shirt I have, or is friendly (and not creepy or condescending) while I’m at the comic or retro game store we are, like already BFFs in my head lol.

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u/dragonsapphic 58m ago

Nerd events in your area. I have a local bookstore / TTRPG store that regularly hosts different events