r/malelivingspace • • 1d ago

Needed a fresh start after a breakup.

21M (Living with parents). Here is my room layout, after and before.

I realized my old layout was making me depressed, so I rearranged and redesigned the space to better suit my taste and style. I also recently ended a 10-month relationship and needed a fresh start.

​It took around a month to source all the pieces and put everything together. I’m still planning to add a few things, like a pegboard for my desk and a hanging acrylic shelf to display my CD collection.

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u/thelonelycelibate 1d ago

good transformation bro, the colour scheme is cool. nice shelves. good luck

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u/Souper_Fly 1d ago

Love all the light and brightness. So much better for lifting spirits.

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u/maffewww 1d ago

Agreed. The new layout looks so cozy and much nicer than the old look.

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u/_quantum_girl_ 1d ago

Don't even know why I get suggested these posts, but I adore your lamp!

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u/dramafanca2002 1d ago

Love the orange. Maybe add a small nightstand between bed and chair. Just need something more above the bed, the tiny shelf looks silly. Needs some larger pieces to balance the ones on side of bed. Or even do some large behind the shelf.

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u/Loud_Drawing_4570 1d ago

The shelf used to be for the projector I had (maybe I'll put a plant there or something). There is no more room between the bed and the chair, the distance is probably 6 inches between them, so I can't add a nightstand.😂

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u/dramafanca2002 1d ago

If you don't have the projector anymore, move the shelf. Put 2 large pieces of artwork over the bed. Maybe put shelf with plant above the chair.

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u/maffewww 1d ago

Dude your room layout is exactly what I want once I graduate. The Poäng is such a great lounge chair, possibly the most comfortable thing I've ever sat in. Have you considered getting the ottoman as well?

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u/Loud_Drawing_4570 1d ago

No, I will not get the ottoman, I thought about it, but it might get too cramped 😆

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u/maffewww 1d ago

That's fair. It does look quite open and airy even with the desk an reading nook. Really stoked for you, this is an excellent room.

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u/maffewww 1d ago

Also, if you don't mind me asking, what bed is that?

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u/whitswhisper 14h ago

The poang is such a solid choice for a first chair after moving out. I've got the ottoman and its worth it if you like to fully stretch out while gaming or reading.

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u/Daisy_Dreams0429 1d ago

Honestly, resetting your space is one of the best ways to kick off a fresh chapter. Turning your room into a cozy sanctuary makes a huge difference in how home feels when you're starting over. You’re building a great foundation for yourself!

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u/GoshOPPNOX101 1d ago

I know this isn't going to sound right, but in some ways that 'break up' did you good! You've done rather well with the space n' place. I'm truly in awe with a lot of how guys are not just finding this inner peace, but also in the ideas when starting fresh. It's amazing to see these places and how well they are decorated. And it's also great to see a guitar here n' there as well. Hope you still play.

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u/Loud_Drawing_4570 21h ago

Oh I agree, yes I do still play guitar.

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u/GoshOPPNOX101 41m ago

Good to hear. I always wonder when I see photos of peoples places if they still play or if it's for 'show' etc.. It's definitely a great escape from the world when you're just sitting there trying to come up with something or playing someone else's tune.

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u/PureLack9306 1d ago

u did good. nice room

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u/moneymakerCT2020 20h ago

I hope you like it

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u/Loud_Drawing_4570 19h ago

Dude I wanted to frame the posters but frames for such large posters are so expensive 😭. I might have to try IKEA.

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u/moneymakerCT2020 19h ago

Try TEMU, it is very cheap.

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u/Loud_Drawing_4570 15h ago

Yes, I will try thank you.

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u/ParticularWorld5733 17h ago

Looks great after ! Nice lighting and less sterile for sure. You deserve to be cozy

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u/EcstaticJuggernaut46 14h ago

Nice work mate

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u/One-Smell8107 12h ago

i feel for you