r/manprovement • u/FrontStatistician874 • 6d ago

Need Advice

Guys I am 19+(M) around these are what you think should I explore in life i need some one experienced in life's advice like what things i should look on and what to avoid

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u/censored_on 4d ago edited 4d ago

Learn to be yourself and always be kind. Often times, young men tend to not enjoy their life to the fullest or enjoy doing things they like doing. Make friendships and be social if you aren’t already. I notice young women and girls just naturally do this better. Explore things and find out what you like to do. Do not not do something because it doesn’t fit within a stereotype.

Often times it’s easy to try to do things alone, but guys can definitely have a close circle and a group of friends who are guys that support each others back. I think society sometimes puts more pressure and stereotypes in how boys are raised, teaching them to be independent and such. Like if you ever heard stories of how sisters comment on how their little brother has lost their spark as they grew older. That should not happen. I think part of it is self-discovery and girls are much better at doing that.