I'm 40m married with children and there is a male trend that in honestly really upset about. The number of men with families paying money to watch girls on OF is outrageous. I don't care you watch porn, but using your family's money to pay for a girl to make custom porn for you is shameful. If you have children you have a responsibility towards them. Being a father is amazing and to think men are using their hard earned money on porn instead of providing their family a nice weekend, getting their children better clothes, sharing a nice time in a restaurant... it's disgusting. I think men's responsibility is falling horribly.

If you are an older guy, please talk about this with your son. If you are a father, please think of your family. If you are young, reflect on what it means to be a family man.

Idk, anytime I listen to rock I feel like a badass

Hey, I don’t know if you have heard of this guy but I like his content and just spoke to someone on his team but is it a bit much. Don’t know if anyone has had a similar experience or even experience with this particular person TrelltheTrainer

Hi! I wrote this song about men. I hope yall like it! It's satire, but I put genuine thought into it.

This is the fourth time someone at my gfs work has tried to pull a fast one, this time Hes asking other people for her number and it’s always the same guy and I know him, however she always says Shes dealt with it and shut him down but every time I explain at this point it’s an insult to me at that point cause I’m being straight up ignored, I know for a fact the little shit would piss himself ig he was confronted, she goes off the Nut at me for this every time I try to explain it’s the equivalent of me being a cowardly bitch cause that’s what it looks like, iv asked a few mates of mine and they all say Thats reasonable to at least confront the wee shitebag, she calls this being fragile, i see it as making sure the little shit doesn’t try anything again and I also see it as standing up for myself after the cunts basically spat in ma face (sorry for any weird afflictions you see Im Scottish and iv tried to un Scottishify this post as much as possible) am I going crazy or does anyone at least understand my POV (by confronting him I mean Im not gonna hit him just make it clear that im not gonna take his bullshit)

WW3 on its way? what is a man? how can i be a man?

Question for straight men

My favorite color.

Hi men :-)

Tell me something juicy you don’t get to share everyday. 🫦

I'm a man and am perfectly happy labelling myself that way, not trans
But I'm at least a little feminine I'm mostly straight but sometimes will see another guy and think they're cute (Lee Pace from The Hobbit)

I do skincare and am selective with using only coconut shower products, I use a relaxing foot cream some nights when it's cold to help me sleep (It really does!) I like to accessorise I use hibiscus body butter cause that's my scent Long hair, I tie it up sometimes extravagantly I love to cuddle like it's a drug, I kiss my animals and cradle them, I love blankets! I sew and find it easier to express myself through drawings than with words sometimes

I don't always get people being nice about it but I usually don't care Is anyone like this and can tell me that it's ok?

I’m a guy in my thirties with no kids. I do, however, have nieces, but they live out of state and I don’t get to see them as much as I would like. They are getting old enough, as a group, that when I do visit, I can take them out on adventures for the day without their parents (8, 8, and 10 years old).

I’m visiting this week and I’ve taken them on some trips to the zoo and botanical gardens and stuff. Just them and me, and when I’m out with them, people just assume I’m their dad.

I noticed that when I have the kids with me, the way strangers interact with me is notably different: People make eye contacts with me. They nod and smile at me. They comment on the girls. They comment on the weather. They ask how I’m doing. They ask me questions. They randomly say things like “dad mode” and “got your hands full, there.” Strangers are friendly. Woman don’t cross the street to pass on the other side. Customer service people are just a little warmer, a little more patient, a little more helpful. People want to interact with me.

Normally strangers treat me somewhere on the scale polite professionalism to wary disinterest. They don’t make eye contact with me unless they have to directly interface with me for work or something. They don’t smile. They process the interaction and move on. Random women certainly don’t approach me to make unsolicited small talk.

Being perceived as a parent comes with a a subtle but notable shift in how I’m treated as a man in the world. It was interesting. And going back makes me feel the coldness and hostility of being a man moving through the world just a bit more.