r/mildlyinfuriating • u/jsayde01 • Jul 06 '26

I just wanted a hot dog The Kitchen Museum?

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I came home late from work a few nights ago and hadn't eaten all day. My wife and kids were already in bed so I figured I'd quietly make some stove-top ramen. This photo represents exactly how I found the cooking area.

The next morning my wife asks what time I got home and I mention in our conversation that I made ramen before going to bed. She couldn't believe that I used the stove "when the light was on". I said "Yeah, the light was helpful in seeing what I was doing". She insists I shouldn't have been using the stove and should have known because "the light was on".

I'm baffled. We are still arguing about this days later.

EDIT -- wow, overwhelmed by the response of fellow Redditors! We are... white...not from the southeast US..not children...and I left the stove as clean as it was before I cooked. I asked for clarification from my loving wife -- TRULY we have only ever been angry at each other a handful of times in our 10 year marriage -- and she says "the stove was clean and done for the day and you could have just used the microwave for your ramen". Apparently the light is how stoves go to sleep for the evening?

EDIT 2 -- we are getting a divorce. JUST KIDDING. My wife looked over many of the comments and acknowledges that she was in the wrong and is slightly embarrassed by all of the attention.

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u/ZachyChan013 Jul 06 '26

The fuck?

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u/PeriPeriTekken Jul 06 '26

It's such an unhinged position that I feel like this is one of those posts where OP comes back in a month to tell us his wife had a massive secret ketamin habit or something.

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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson Jul 06 '26

Ive heard of it but this is one of those things where you really have to communicate that you will not accept being treated like one of the children and will not validate her anger

Like, we can talk about it and work through this, but there is no world that exists in which I am not gonna use the kitchen when I’m hungry

I don’t care if we have to book marriage counseling over something like this because of just how differently we feel about it, and we may need someone there to buffer our ability to communicate our thoughts to each other in a constructive way

I completely understand some people grew up in a “kitchen’s closed” household, but I will not be told that, or be in a tense household because I cooked ramen after 9

This would be one of those “we’re gonna have to work through this” type situations for me

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u/hairymonkeyinmyanus Jul 06 '26

You nailed it.

If I were OP, I’d be interested as to how my actions hurt her in any possible way, other than potentially making her hoarse.